I overheard a conversation about swinging today.  Not swinging like playground swinging, but swinging as in having sex with mutiple partners at the same time.

Now I'm no prude, but swinging and having sex with someone else and my husband disgusts me. 

I can't get my head around the mindset....the women I overheard talking today mentioned that there was a lot of 'emotional love' involved.  How?  If you love someone enough to want to spend the rest of you life with them, how can you stand to see them having sex (of any kind) with someone else? How can you yourself stand to have anyone else touch you in a sexual way with your spouse in the same room; in the same bed even? 

To me, swinging is basically cheating on your spouse, but with their permission and full knowledge.  It goes against everything my marriage (and a lot of other marriages) stand for.  It's physical infidelity, and I promised I wouldn't do it when I got married.  Not only is it infidelity, I personally think that it shows a lack of self-respect. 

Just one more thing to add to the long, ever growing list of 'stuff i just don't understand'.......