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Published on November 6, 2005 By dharmagrl In Misc

This is Marguerite Perrin. 

In case you haven't seen her yet, she recently took part in a Fox TV show called 'Trading Spouses'.   The premise of this show is that 2 women who have never met before trade families with each other for a week.  To be honest, it hasn't really caught my attention....until Marguerite came along, that is.

Marguerite is a bit of a radical when it comes to her religion.  She's very into her god, is Marguerite.  Believes that the devil is out to get her and that she's a "warrior of god", ready to do battle with the "dark-side".

Funnily enough, the family that she got traded with aren't christians.  They're pagans.  The wife is a hypnotherapist, the husband is an astrologer.  They're very nice people - a little 'new age-y' perhaps, but genuinely nice folks.

During the show it was obvious that Marguerite wasn't comfortable in the other family's home.  She even tossed her cookies once, blaming her nausea on the garbage smelling.  Everyone else thought that the garbage smelled just fine (as far as garbage smelling fine can be, that is) - I think that marguerite was askeered becuase she was in the presence of what she thought were the spawn of satan.

Her reaction to her family after she got back to her own home reinforced that belief.

She had a fit.  Now, when I say 'fit' I don't mean a few angry words and slammed doors, I mean a full on, screaming, yelling tantrum.

She growled.  She screeched.  She screamed that everything in the house had been "dark-sided", that it was all tainted by the presence of a woman who was a pagan.  "she wasn't a CHRISTIAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!" Marguerite literally shrieked as her family stood around, stunned into silence.

"PSYCHICS AND GAR-GILLS!!!!  EVERYTHINGS BEEN TAINTED!!!!!! IT'S BEEN DARK-SIDED!!!!" she bansheed as she ripped up an envelope. (just a thought- is is possible for something to be 'dark-sided'?  The phrase reminds me of people who describe their animals as having been 'spaded'.  "Kittyt got spaded yesterday"...."my toilet was dark-sided this morning"....?)

This woman came across as deranged.  She really scared me.  It wasn't just the yelling, it was the expression of sheer hatred on her face that frightened me. 

Marguerite Perrin isn't a "warrior of god". She might think that she is, but she's not.  She's doing what so many fanatically religious people do - she's using her religion to justify her actions and to accuse anyone who doesn't think the same way she does as doing the work of the devil.  She's not demonstrating Christian values when she's screaming about godlessness, she's deomonstrating hatred and contempt.  Last time I checked, Christ told us we were supposed to be tolerant and compassionate.  Apparently Marguerite's bible doesn't read like mine does, because I saw ZERO tolerance coming from her.  The supposedly 'satanic' pagan family that she was traded with would have made better Christians than Marguerite EVER will, because they were tolerant and respectful of her beliefs and philosophies.  How ironic.....if she had taken the time to see past the 'pagan' label she had stuck on them, she might have actually seen that their philosophies had a lot in common with hers. 

I saw no tolerance, no compassion, no love.  Just sheer hatred, and to be honest, fear.  She was terrified of those people and their way of life.  She didn't even want to hear about their way of life - they didn't think like her, and that's all she needed to know.  To have gone any further would, have her, been dabbling with the devil. 

I have Marguerite's phone number.  I found it on a message board discussing wether or not she's psychotic and in dire need of some mental health assistance and treatment.  Someone who had grown up in a house with a mother much like Marguerite (Carrie, perhaps?) and who was so traumatized by the experience that they needed therapy as an adult took it upon themselves to go 411 her name and post her telephone number for everyone to see.  I doubted that said numbers were still in service, so I called her business...,and sure enough, it was her.  She hasn't felt the need to change her numbers...then again, perhaps nobody has called her.  Perhaps they're all too scared of her....perhaps seeing her on TV had such a detrimental effect on them that they don't think they can handle her in any greater proximity.

I don't blame them at all.  She's crazy - crazy, masquerading as uber-religious.

 

(you can see the video here: http://www.fox.com/tradingspouses/  - but be warned, it's pretty disturbing)


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on Nov 07, 2005
Was that the check for appearing on the show she tore up?
on Nov 07, 2005

Dharma - do you want to strap her in the strait jacket yourself? It might have to be custom made. You could then whisper in her ear that it's been dark sided - scene fades to black

Oh hell yeah!  That would RAWK!!!

its a shame that this will be used against all Christians everywhere...kinda like Benny Hinn and Tammy Faye Baker.....

It wasn't just her, though, it was her friends too.  They were incredibly rude and derogatory towards the other woman who was living with Marguerite's family.  So, it's not JUST her.

 

What in the world did you say to her when you called her?

Nothing.  I got her business answering machine and even though she gave out her home number on it I didn't call that.  I have no desire to get that close to her....

 

Right, reality tv. I believe in it's truth like I believe in pro-wrestling.

Dude, this stuff is too good to be scripted.  I believe that a lot of stuff was edited for dramatic effect, but I believe that the majority of it actually happened. 

Coincidentally, a symptom of schizophernia (I think, Psych 101 was a while ago) was believing to be some kind of warrior of god, and also that $SOMEONE was out to get you.

Now, if she was having conversations with the LAWD AWMIGHTY, then she should really get some help.

She is.  she said on the show that she hears God talking to her.  To me, that pretty much affirms that she has some kind of mental disorder/disease.

If you wanna know what someone who is possessed looks and sounds like.. She is it!..

That's what I thought too!  The Exorcist  doesn't hold a candle to her!

 

I cant wait to see this on tele if we ever get it..

I'll see if I can get it on video for you...

 

I kept thinking to myself that...that is how some people see Christians and she just seemed so far out of reality that she was taking it to extreme

Yes, that IS how some of us see christianity.  Is it any wonder we reject it when you've got people like Marguerite acting as poster kids for the faith?

Not really. If you are a Christian and it is your goal to go and spread the message of Christ, then you could be considered a Warrier of God. There are some bike groups out there like "Army of the Lord", "soldiers for jesus" etc... Its not bad to be a warrier for God...but to take it to the extreme like she did is....just plain wack.

Like I said before, her friends are just as bad...

 

Was that the check for appearing on the show she tore up?

I had wondered if she would reject the money because it's been 'dark-sided'.  Perhaps she'll have it cleansed or baptised before she spends it.

on Nov 07, 2005
Thanks Dharma!  This was an excellent article for me.  It reaffirmed my reasons for not watching those realilty shows!
on Nov 07, 2005
Her husband, by the way, ought to grow a set of cohones and tell her to STFU every so often. Seems to me like nobody in that house is telling her that she's crazy or out of control....so it's just escalating.


When you are (trapped) in a situation with someone like that, if you don't catch it from the start, the fear is "what will she do if my plan fails?" Its why people stay in abusive relationships, it's why my dad took so long to tell my mother to take a hike and it's (probably) why this woman's family meekly accepts the crap she dishes out. The misery she can dispense far outweighs any benifets that could be gained by telling her to STFU.

on Nov 07, 2005

The misery she can dispense far outweighs any benifets that could be gained by telling her to STFU.

You know, I never thought of that before.  You're right...they're all probably so used to it that they don't see it the way we do.  Besides, so much is made of MEN who are abusive that we don't think of women being abusive....but from what I saw she's meeting and exceeding the criteria. 

There's something wrong with her.  Seriously.....she has some kind of imbalance or disorder.  I'd be interested in hearing what a mental health professional has to say about her behaviour.

Thanks Dharma! This was an excellent article for me. It reaffirmed my reasons for not watching those realilty shows

Welcome, and I don't usually watch them either...for much the same reason as you, from the sounds of things.  I've made a point of staying away from reality TV, but this...well, I'm going to watch the second episode of this show just to see what else she's going to do and say.  It's like a car accident.  You know that what you're going to see is going to be unpleasant and might make you feel ill, but you can't help but look.

I'd really, really like to see a spin off from this show.  Something along the lines of "marguerite goes to the doctor" and then "marguerite before and after - how haldol helped her beat the dark side". 

 

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