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It rained all day today here.  The roads and sidewalks were covered with puddles, some of them 3 or 4 inches deep.

The kids came home from school, all excited about going trick or treating.  Dave and I were going to ask them if they'd prefer that we took them, all dressed up, to WalMart and got them a giant size bag of candy each....but after seeing how their little faces lit up as they donned their costumes we decided that we'd brave the rain and the cold and take them trick or treating.

I took a couple of percocet before we left, trying to head my pain off before it really set in (I'll start using the fentanyl patches tomorrow), put on my Columbia jacket, hiking boots and a hat, and off we went.

I was both delighted and disgusted with what we saw on the streets of our neighborhood. 

I was delighted to see little LITTLE kids dressed up - one little dude who was about 2 or so was all dressed up as a yellow duckie, and he was just adorable.  There was another little boy who was Buzz Lightyear, and a little girl who was a fairy, complete with wings, wand and a tiara.   The cutest thing I saw, though, was a chubby little baby in a lobster outfit.  All of the kids were behaving themselves - there wasn't any rowdiness or fighting, and they were all saying 'please' and 'thank you' without having to be prompted by their parents.

I was disgusted because of the behaviour of some parents.  I know that it was raining, and I know that some people perhaps couldn't walk far for whatever reason.....but there were parents who were dropping their kids off at each individual door, almost knocking people over in the process.  One guy in a van came close to clipping me with his wing mirror so that he could let his kids outclose to the sidewalk.  I guess I'm old school in my thinking that trick or treating is done on foot, regardless of the weather.  If you DO decide to drive, drop your kids off at the end of one street, make them walk from house to house, THEN drive them to the next street.  All this door-to-door chauffering was silly.  And, it was dangerous.  People just showed no common sense.  I mean, it's Halloween night.  It's dark.  There are TONS of little kids around, all excited about getting candy....and maybe not paying as much attention as they should to cars and road safety.  It would be appropriate for drivers to do the speed limit, wouldn't you think?  I would too...but there were some people who were doing waaaay more than the 20mph speed limit through housing.  That's just stupid, IMO.

Anyway, after about an hour and a half, just as my back was starting to get my attention despite the percocet I had on board, Jake said that his feet were starting to hurt and that he wanted to go home.  So, we headed home and wrung out our jackets in the kitchen (yeah, we were THAT wet), and the kids decided to weigh their bags of candy.  They knew they had a lot; much more than last year, but they wanted to see just HOW much they had.

Each kid weighed their bag on the bathroom scales....they got slightly over 8lbs.  EACH.  I think that's the motherload of Halloween confectionary for us; they've NEVER got that much before.

So, I have 3 kids sitting on the living room floor, inspecting their stashes for open bags (their parent's paranoia has rubbed off on them) and a dog who keep sneaking up on them and running off with Mary Janes and taffy.  They're happy, I'm happy, Dave's happy.  He said something reallly nice to me earlier - he said that I was being a trooper, and that he was impressed with me.  It may not seem like much, but it was really quite meaningful to me.

All in all, a good time was had by all this All Hallow's Eve.  Despite the rain.


Comments
on Oct 31, 2005
Yay for Halloween! We scored too.

on Oct 31, 2005
I agree with the driving kids trick or treating. I saw the same thing and found it irritating too.

That shows dedication to go in the rain. They earned their candy this year.
on Oct 31, 2005
Dave's happy. He said something reallly nice to me earlier - he said that I was being a trooper, and that he was impressed with me. It may not seem like much, but it was really quite meaningful to me.


It's those little things that show the interest, the caring. I understand anyway, now.

Good job on being a Mom, too.
on Oct 31, 2005
8 lbs???!!! Good grief!
on Nov 01, 2005

We scored too

Cool!  What did your's dress up as?  We had a grim reaper, a ghoul, and a Jason.  I didn't do the mummy, it was raining....

I agree with the driving kids trick or treating. I saw the same thing and found it irritating too.

That shows dedication to go in the rain. They earned their candy this year

Yeah, baby, we're some hard core trick or treaters!!!  None of that namby pamby chauffereing stuff for us!  Seriously, that really does piss me off.  I mean, it's dangerous.  It's dark, there are kids wandering all over not paying attention, most of whom are dressed in black or have masks on that impair their vision a little bit...it's just stupid to take a vehicle into the middle of that.

It's those little things that show the interest, the caring. I understand anyway, now.

Thank you.  It means a lot to me that you said that too......and I'm glad that you understand (actually, I'm more glad for your wife that you understand!).  Anyway, thanks for thinking I'm a good mom.

8 lbs???!!! Good grief!

That's what I said!  This HAS to be the biggest haul they ever came home with.  This year they tossed out their pumpkin buckets and took pillowcases instead, and it was a good thing that they did or else they'd have been full after 2 streets!

I'm so jealous of you and Tex. I wanna have fun on Halloween too, damnit, and not having any kids of my own, I have to experience it vicariously through the kids that come to my house

So come to St Louis one year and hang out with us. Seriously.... come trick or treating with us - you'd love it.  Around here the kids are a damn sight better behaved then the hooligans in your 'hood...and some of them we so damn cute, S!  I love little kids as it is, but to see some of these little guys last night, their faces all lit up with happiness because they got to get dressed up and other people gave them candy - they must've thought it was the absolute BEST!  The little ducky boy was just adorable....made me just want to pick him up and hug him because he was just such a little cutie!

There were some really cool outifts out and about last night too.  Ghouls, witches, warlocks, goblins and even a troll.  There were this couple that had done the whole 'Misfits' makeup, and Shea said that's what she wants to do next year. 

on Nov 01, 2005
It was a perfect night here.  The temps were in the 60s, and I saw a lot of parents driving, but the kids were walking.  Just keeping an eye on them (And I dont blame them for it).  Sorry yours was so wet!  But neither rain nor snow the dark of night will keep tricks or treaters from their annointed candy!
on Nov 01, 2005
Wow! We only had 4 trick or treaters the whole night.. but one little girl was dressed as an angel and my dh thought it was the cutest thing ever.

Jayna was an elephant, though we didn't trick-or-treat. I will post photos on my blog tonight!
on Nov 02, 2005
You guys are troopers! I'm glad you all had so much fun. It's strange, but when you have experienced holidays without your loved one(s), it makes it so obviously sweet when they are actually there for it. You just soak it up!

Congrats on the excellent candy haul. Dentist appointment coming up? Hehe.