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Published on September 28, 2005 By dharmagrl In Misc

I've found my birth mother.

I have her name and her address.  I don't have a phone number, but that's okay. 

She's living in her hometown....she's remarried, and I have 3 sisters and a brother.  My brother and one sister are full-blood relatives, and the other 2 sisters are half-sisters.

I got identical information from 2 independent people, neither of whom have asked for payment.  That leads me to believe that all of it really is true, and that I really have found my birth mother.

Now all I have to do is make contact with her.  This is going to be hard.....I mean, what do you say to a person who gave birth to you but with whom you've had no contact for 36 years?

I'm going to write her a letter and send her some pictures of myself, Dave and the kids.  I want her to know that I bear no animosity towards her, no ill will.....that I simply wanted to know that she was alive and well.  Whether she wants to have a relationship from there is up to her.

I'm so shocked I'm shaking.  I've always wondered what this would feel like.....now I know.


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on Sep 29, 2005
Dharma, good luck. Be careful. Take care.
Nicky.
on Sep 29, 2005

Dharma, good luck. Be careful. Take care.

Yeah, you've done this, haven't you?  You found your birth mother? 

 

on Sep 29, 2005
You just sent chills up my spine. What a neat story, I hope you get out of this what you hoped for. Best of luck!!
on Sep 29, 2005
Yeah, you've done this, haven't you? You found your birth mother?


Yes, I found her when I was 17 or 18. Very difficult relationship, but I went into it much younger, and without really expecting any consequences. I still feel two ways about it; angry but glad that I did it.
on Sep 29, 2005
Very difficult relationship, but I went into it much younger, and without really expecting any consequences. I still feel two ways about it; angry but glad that I did it.


I'm pretty aware of the consequences of doing this. That's what kept me awake last night and queasy all day. I'm having a 'what the fuck have I done' day today.....
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