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Published on September 19, 2005 By dharmagrl In Misc

I found a website about the little village I grew up in.

Link

 

I haven't seen pictures of that place for years...I didn't realize how old some of the buildings in it are until I moved away and looked at them as a outsider.

The pub's called 'The Turner's Arms' and I recall spending a few afternoons in there with my dad (kids can go into pubs accompanies by their parents in the UK...or they could back when I was a kid).  The building next to the pub used to be a butcher's shop, and I recall going down there with my mum and getting sausages and bacon.

The church...I used to sing in the choir there.  I had full robes, complete with a neck ruffle and hat, and we had to parade up the aisle at the start of every service and take our places in the choir stalls.  I've taken rubbings of most of the gravestones in the churchyard, and looking at the picture of it in the gallery of the site I can tell you exactly where my friend Rachel is buried.  She died from liver cancer when I was 15....she dwindled for a long time (over a year), and it was my first real experience with the ravages of cancer and the death that followed.  Before her, death to me was clean and quiet...she showed me otherwise.

Sometimes trips down memoray lane do a person good...

 


Comments
on Sep 19, 2005
How old is St Mary's? It looks extremely old in the picture. I would love to visit England. We are considering taking a family vacation for the whole summer in 2006.
on Sep 19, 2005

St Mary The Virgin was started in the 13th century and completed in the 15th century.  There's a folk tale about that...

The original site for the church was down the street, but every morning when the workers showed up, they discovered that their materials had been moved to the current site.  This went on for a few days before they decided to have some men set watch at night to see who was moving their tools and stones.  Without fail, the equipment was moved, but the men who were supposed to be watching over it swore than they had not fallen asleep and had remained awake all night.  The same thing happened to numerous sets of watchmen...so finally the villagers gave up and decided to build on the site that their equipment kept getting moved to.

The churchyard was literally over the wall from my back garden.  It made for some interesting dreams....

on Sep 19, 2005
I don't believe it. It's too nice, too good looking a place to live. Nobody lives there. Certainly ordinary cool people with tattoos and back problems and dogs and fat squirrels could never possibly come from there.

The people are all bussed in during the day as tourist attractions, like that city by the DMZ in North Korea. Or maybe it's just a completely made up place, like Wyoming.
on Sep 19, 2005
The churchyard was literally over the wall from my back garden. It made for some interesting dreams....


I bet sleepovers were a blast at your house! My friends and I always had fun creeping each other out at slumer parties.
on Sep 19, 2005

I bet sleepovers were a blast at your house!

We snuck out a couple of times to go run around the graveyard at night...

It's too nice, too good looking a place to live. Nobody lives there.

Hahah!  If you only knew......

 

on Sep 19, 2005
Cool to see where you're from... I grew up in a church parsonage. There was a family plot in the side yard. We had fun times spookin' each other. It looks like something taken out of an old book, doesn't it? Very quaint. Thanks for sharing
on Sep 19, 2005
Lovely looking place to grow up in!
sorry you too lost a friend in school.
My best bud, Vicky, died of leukemia the year we started 8th grade
sooooo sad a time..I was pretty naive at that age and sure didn't expect to lose her.

I was fat, she was skinny, and we were a perfect pair, understood each other totally.

on Sep 19, 2005
Sounds like a pretty place to visit...Maybe it's all those British Literature books I read in high school and college, but I would LOVE to visit a British countryside...It would be wonderful to do it sometime.

It's sad to hear that your friend died at such a young age.