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...way to set a good example for your kids, assclown.
Published on July 16, 2005 By dharmagrl In Misc
The kids and I went to get the new Harry Potter book at the BX tonight.  We went at 10pm, stood in line for half an our waiting to get in, and got 2 numbered tickets (so we could buy 2 books.  People got one ticket per ID card holder)  The numbers on the tickets were for a door prize drawing after we bought out books.
 
 We hung around the food court for an hour and ate some Baskin Robbins ice cream sundaes,  and then we decided to go get in line for the book which went on sale at midnight.  There were about 15 folks in front of us, and the line grew pretty rapidly. 
 
At close to midnight, a family of three people sauntered over to the register and handed their tickets over to the cashier.  She told them that they had to get in line.  They said they didn't because their tickets had numbers on them.  She said they EVERY ticket had a number on it, that the numbers didn't mean that was the order in which you received your book.  They said that it did.  By this time the rest of the line had overheard what was going on, and someone asked them if they thought that we were all standing in line to pass the time.  The man of the family said that they didn't see the line forming, which caused quite an outburst of laughter. I said that I didn't understand how you could not see the line... there were close to 300 people in it; it snaked from the front of the main store all the way down to the food court.  You simply couldn't miss it.  
 
The manager was called. He came, he listened to the man bitch and complain....and he said that there was nothing he could do, that they'd just have to get in line. By this time the midnight hour had arrived and the line was moving.   The man bitched and bitched about it until finally the woman in front of me said "oh for gods sakes, give him a book so he'll shut up and go home".  The dude got his book, paid for it, and as he left people started boo-ing and saying really loudly how wrong it was to do that, especially in front of your kids.  I know he heard it, he'd have had to have been as deaf as a post to NOT have heard it.....
 
....and I hope he feels like crap about it.  What he did was bullshit....what kind of a message is he sending to his kids, behaving like that? That if you bitch loud enough and long enough, you get what you want?  Nice attitude.
 
There were a lot of people there tonight, from the base commander and his kids to one-striped dorm-dwellers.  This guy made quite a spectacle of himself in front of EVERYONE.  This is a relatively small community, and he's going to be recognized.  People will remember him....not for anything good, though.
 
He's going to be known base-wide as the smacktard who pitched a fit over a book.
 
 

Comments
on Jul 16, 2005
Maybe he just wanted to be well known
on Jul 16, 2005
Oh those special people who should never have to wait in line, merge on the highway, or any of the other things us common people have to do. The sad thing is he probably went home feeling victorious instead of embarrassed like he should have been. Special people annoy me.
on Jul 16, 2005
Maybe he just wanted to be well known


Danny, that has to be one of the most assinine things I've ever heard you say. I don't have anything nice to say, ergo I shall say nothing further.

The sad thing is he probably went home feeling victorious instead of embarrassed like he should have been.


Exactly. Instead of wanting the ground to open up and swallow him, he probably walked out of the store with a 'Yeeeah! I'm tha MAN!" attitude.

Now that I've had a chance to sleep on it, I'm even more ticked off. To do that in public os one thing, but to do that in public in front of your kids...that's just wrong on so many levels I don't know where to begin. By acting that way he's sending a message to his children that it's okay to scream and yell and act like a baby when you don't get your own way. He's saying to them that if things don't go the way you want them to you can throw a tantrum until someone gives in.

And we wonder why we have so many problems with kids today. It's because they're being raised by morons like that!
on Jul 16, 2005
Maybe he just wanted to be well known


Danny, that has to be one of the most assinine things I've ever heard you say. I don't have anything nice to say, ergo I shall say nothing further.


Karen, I assume you missed the emoticon at the end of Danny's line. He was trying to be sarcastic!
on Jul 16, 2005

Karen, I assume you missed the emoticon at the end of Danny's line. He was trying to be sarcastic!

No, I saw it.  Sarcasm doesn't translate well through emoticons though.  I didn't think he was trying to be sarcastic and if he was then I apologize for my comment.  However Danny has, in the past, left some responses on my threads that have been just plaing silly.  Like the time I wrote an article about wanting  tattoos with the Kanji symbols for 'wisdom' and 'courage' on the tops of my feet, but how I was kind of scared to get them because I didn't want to end up with symbols that meant something totally different.  Danny's response?  He said that it would be okay, that if I did get the wrong symbols I could just tell people that i was trying to stamp those characteristics out of my personality.

So, does that help clarify why I said what I did to him?

 

on Jul 16, 2005
However Danny has, in the past, left some responses on my threads that have been just plaing silly


I'll grant you Danny has left some silly replies before. But in this case "if" he was not just being "silly buggers", then what he wrote was just plain ignorant.
on Jul 16, 2005
But in this case "if" he was not just being "silly buggers", then what he wrote was just plain ignorant.


Thank you! That's what I thought too. I'm just not in any mood to take stupidity and ignorance today.
on Jul 16, 2005
We just moved to the Scott area (I am military but not assigned to Scott). My wife and youngest son were in the same line. She must have been right there also, as she described the same event and felt the same way you did.
Kannon7
on Jul 16, 2005
I was trying to be humourous, I'm sorry I offended.
on Jul 16, 2005
She must have been right there also, as she described the same event and felt the same way you did.

Cool! I'm glad that it wasn't just me! Hey, we ought to get together sometime.....you can reach me at dharmagirl69@gmail.com . It's always nice to meet people in the same area!
Welcome to JU btw!

was trying to be humourous, I'm sorry I offended.


Can you not see that your humor was misplaced? Not everything is funny....
on Jul 18, 2005
It is sad.  It is also kind of sad that so many people would go to such lenghts to buy a book that can be had anywhere if you just wait a couple of days.  I have no sympathy to the smacktard as you call him, but I also fail to understand people who wait hours to see the latest Star Wars come out at midnight or to buy a book.
on Jul 18, 2005
Unfortunately that guy's behavior is more common than you think. People who work retail or deal with customers could tell some stories. I have seen some real asswipes giving people the hardest of times over something that is their own damn fault. They lack total common sense. Some people think just because they are going to spend money they have the right to be jerks. Look at how waiters and waitresses are treated.

Ever see the show 'Airline'? It's on A&E. You should see the way some people act in front of their kids. The clear message the guy you saw that night was giving his kids was, if you act like a baby you get what you want. His kids probably act that way already. The only thing you can hope is that their mother has her pie together and is enough of an influence that they can see their father for what he really is, and be smart enough to not follow in his footsteps and smart enough to show him his errors in a way that makes their father understand and be more responsible.

I know it's asking a lot. But hey, if I can read Harry Potter books it means I can believe in fantasies.
on Jul 20, 2005
LOL @ smacktard - never heard if before but it sounds great... Smacktard! Do you mind if I start using it?

BTW - as far as I'm concerned 'didn't see the line forming' is ignorance and ignorance is not an excuse, ever.

Cheers,

Maso