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Published on June 26, 2005 By dharmagrl In Humor

This is for all of us who grew up in the 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's.

We survived being born to mothers who smoked and drank whilst they were pregnant with us.

They took asprin, ate blue cheese and brie, ate tuna from a can and never got tested for diabetes....not to mention cleaning out cat boxes.

After our arrival, our cribs and rooms were decorated with lead based paints.

We had no childproof medicine bottles, no latches on cabinet doors, no outlet covers.  When we rode our bikes we did so sans helmets.

We were allowed to ride in cars with no car seats or air bags, and some of us even rode without seatbelts.  A ride in the bed of a pickup truck was a real treat on a warm day.  We even hitchhiked and made it to our destination in one piece.

We drank water from the garden hose and we shared soda cans and bottles with our friends...and no-one actually died from doing so.

We ate cakes, candies, sugar and real butter, we drank sodas...and not many of us we overweight because we were always playing outside and burning calories off.

We would leave home in the morning and be outside all day...coming home when the street lights came on.  We were unreachable all day...but we were okay.

We would spend hours building go-carts out of scraps of wood, only to find half-way down the hill that we had forgotten to add brakes to our machines.  After we ran into the bushes a few times, we learned to fix that problem.

We did not have Playstations, X-boxes or Nintendos; we had no cell phones or pagers; there were no 99 cable channels.  We didn't have computers or the internet or chat rooms...we made friends by going outside and finding them!

We fell out of trees, we fell off bikes.  We got cut, we broke bones and we knocked out teeth...and no lawsuits resulted from our injuries.

We had BB guns, we made up games with sticks and tennis balls, and although we were told it would happen, not many of us actually put out our eyes.

We had sports team tryouts and not everyone who tried out made the team.  They had to learn to live with their disappointment....imagine that, huh?

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of.  In fact, if we got arrested, jail was probably the safest place for us to be......

We learned about freedom, success, failure and responsibility...we learned how to deal with it all.

We survived.  We made it.  We should be proud of ourselves.

 

 

 


Comments
on Jun 26, 2005

Hey, I liked that! Luckily some if it is humor. Makes ya wonda what future generations will say, if they´ll be able to.
SATYROBE

on Jun 26, 2005
You know what dharma, what you described as childhood in the 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's, is still true in the Pacific, well here in Vanuatu anyway! I hope it lasts for as long as possible too...

Great article, and yes, u should be proud of yourselves!
on Jun 26, 2005
Satyroe: Thanks, and welcome to JU!

IG: Yeah, I;d imagine that it's still that way in a lot of parts of the world...and people and kids still survive there too!

I was watching someone a couple of months ago take their kid out for a stroll. They had this car seat that hooked into a stroller base...the kids was strapped in the car seat, then the seat was locked into the base, then there was a hood thing that came up over the car seat, then she put a plastic cover over the entire thing....not to mention that the kid was wearing a coat and a hat. It just got me thinking about how when i was little, a stroller was a canvas seat on a frame with 4 wheels. That was it. I sometimes wonder if we're TOO protective....
on Jun 26, 2005

You know how we survived?  OUr parents did not read that bull crap!

So we fell down and broke our crowns.  And got up and ran again!

on Jun 26, 2005
So we fell down and broke our crowns. And got up and ran again!


Yes we did. I tried to ramp off a big ol' step on my bike once. Didn't work. I busted my chin, my eyebrow and cut one of my knees up so bad that I still have a scar from it. My mom cleaned my up, stuck band aids on me, and sent me back out to play. You know what I learned? That if I ramped on my bike, I was going to fall and it was going to hurt. Way to not get hurt: don't ramp on bike. I didn't wear helmets or knee pads, I just didn't do what caused me to get hurt again in a hurry.

It was called common sense. I don't know if you can get that any more.....
on Jun 27, 2005
I think i'll be an over protective mother. I wouldnt want my kid to hurt even though u really cant help it sometimes!
When i have to watch over kids playing I always anticipate their falls or any accident. I'll be constanlty saying 'watch out for this' 'look out' etc, my Dad just says:
"let him trip over and cry, that'll teach him" lol!
on Jun 27, 2005
excellent and so true! good article...
on Jun 27, 2005
Yep, I grew up the same way. And I was a pretty wreckless kid too.

In all fairness, many of the safety related stuff today stems from the fact that many kids didn't survive. Maybe we were the lucky ones, but a lot of kids did get sick, crippled, or killed by a lot of what you mentioned.

Sadly, like many things, good ideas about keeping kids a little safer get blown out of proportion and people go way overboard with it.
on Jun 27, 2005
This is entertaining, and brought back many memories.

I think what we have to do, as parents, is strike a balance between allowing children to experience natural consequences and explore the world around them and protecting them from experiences that are excessively damaging or damaging without providing any redeeming lesson.

Car seats, bike helmets, prenatal cautiousness...these are good things. Digging in the ground, searching for dinosaur bones is a good thing. Bare feet on soft grass is a good thing. A big slice of sweet birthday cake is a good thing.

Children today have so many opportunities and life is much more complicated for them than it was for us, and I agree that they are missing out on lessons on perseverance, problem solving, etc.

It's up to us as parents to help guide them and provide the opportunity for them to help Shrek find the onion of Greater Gas on Gamecube and then provide the opportunity for them to help their little brother find the gecko hidden in the grass in the back yard.

A balance of cautiousness and experimentation and technology and nature and simplicity and complexity and bologna sandwiches and pudding finger paint is the best way to go.
on Jun 28, 2005
We ate snow and survived.


on Jul 03, 2005
OMG!!! How the hell did we survive?