Hi, my name is Dharma, and I'm a pushover.

Published on April 27, 2005 By dharmagrl In Misc

So, after weeks of saying that I'm not going to this sex toy party.....I'm going.

I don't want to go. It's not my scene. But...my friend is having the party, so it's the right thing for me to do. I'm going to go to show my support to her...and for the free booze. Hey, if I have to go, I can at least have a beer to take the edge off, right?

I feel like a total pushover right now. I'm not usually like this, I usually have no problems voicing my opinion (ask D, he'll tell you) but for some reason I just can't say "no, I'm not going" even though I really, really don't want to.

I did hear that there's going to be some nice undies on offer tonight as well, it's not all about vibrators and booze.....and I'm a sucker for a pretty thong so maybe there will be something of interest to me after all. Thongs, boy cut panties, bras....yeah, I think I'll be able to find something to tantalise me. I've been thinking about buying a lacy thong and sneaking it into the next care package I send to the Middle East....that'd give him something to think about for the next 4 months, huh??

Besides, hopefully my attendance will dispel the myth that I'm 'the weird hippy chick at the end of the street'....then again, it might just reinforce it!!

I wish the JU girls were going with me though.....now THAT'd be a good time!

Comments (Page 1)

tjesterb

on Apr 27, 2005

Thongs and booze? How can you go wrong?
I haven't been on JU for, uh, well a long while, and this is the first article I read. Now I need to go take a cold shower. Thanks a lot.

(I also read your post about your daughter's cough. Hope she's doing better. Good thing you followed your instincts and took her to another Doc.)

Reiki-House

on Apr 27, 2005

Don't rationalize this. Go with your original instinct. There's good reason why you originally dismissed the thought of going, and you saying you're a pushover isn't a valid excuse for the stronger-willed people. If you truly truly think you're a wimpy pushover then it's ok. But when you have original feelings of trepidation that's a signal that you acknowledge the challenge (standing firm in your convictions) and know you have enough evidence (your initial ill feelings towards the party) to act on them.

dharmagrl

on Apr 27, 2005

Hehe...sorry. Hope your chilly shower was an...exhilarating experience for you!

She's much better, thanks..

Reiki...dude, have you never heard of doing something that you really don't want to do to benefit a friend? That's what friendship is all about IMO.....it's a give and take. No, I really dont want to go, but it's my friend's party and I'm going not for what's on sale there, but for her. I'm sure she's done things for me that she didn't want to, in fact I KNOW she's gone out of her way to help me out, just like I've helped (and am continuing to help) her out.

Danny Bassette

on Apr 27, 2005

*PUSH*
Did you fall over? Enjoy the party, or at least try to. And who knows, you might meet a weird hippy chick from the middle of the street

EmperorofIceCream

on Apr 27, 2005

Shovelheat

on Apr 27, 2005

Link

Sugar High Elf

on Apr 27, 2005

Hehehe... I wish I could be there!

FUN parties are, well.... fun! I plan on throwing one for my newly engaged friend. (Though her engagement present from me was a Bush-ism's calendar... oh well)

The important thing is to laugh at these things. Buy stuff for jokes, and give them for Christmas, though choose wisely, some people won't get it.

Sugar High Elf

on Apr 27, 2005

Oh, Shovelheat! That was great!

dharmagrl

on Apr 27, 2005

Enjoy the party, or at least try to.

I did....it was a lot of fun, actually. And yes, I bought. Hehe.......D's going to have the ride of his life when he comes home....hehe....

: EmperorofIceCream

Again, I don't know what to make of that, but ....whatever.

Hehehe... I wish I could be there!

I wish you could have been there too!

Oh, Shovelheat! That was great!

Yeah, that did rawk......

Reiki-House

on Apr 28, 2005

Ok Dharma. I take it you're not religious or anything. Did you say something about Buddhism before or was it only the meditation yoga thing or something? I don't have any problem with these matters of course but I hate it when supposedly moral religious people do things like that. I don't like hypocrites. I could never be one since I don't mind what anyone does ever. Anyways...

dharmagrl

on Apr 28, 2005

Reiki....whatever, dude.

KarmaGirl

on Apr 28, 2005

My neighbor and her friends get together and have a "home show" party. All of them sell different home show (like partylite, tupperware, tastefully simple, body shop, etc). One of her friends sells "adult" products (can't remember the name). OMG was that funny! The look on some of these women's faces when they saw some of the "products" was priceless.

I don't think that there is anything "religiously" wrong with sex toys. What a husband and a wife do together in privacy is their own business. Maybe if more people had open minds about their intimate relationships there wouldn't be so many divorces or unhappy couples. (I probably should make sure that my husband doesn't read that comment, though, or he may get "ideas" LOL)

dharmagrl

on Apr 28, 2005

I don't think that there is anything "religiously" wrong with sex toys. What a husband and a wife do together in privacy is their own business.

That's my take on it. Buddhism sees sex and intimacy as a physical manifestation of love; the coming together of two separate beings to make one being...

..the only 'rule' that Buddhism has regarding sexuality is adultery and promiscuity. That's frowned upon...and it creates some rotten karma too.

Dr Guy

on Apr 28, 2005

wish the JU girls were going with me though.....now THAT'd be a good time!

What about us Guys?

You better have a detailed report on it upon your return!

Sugar High Elf

on Apr 28, 2005

Guys aren't usually allowed at these kinds of parties... they just have to wait to reap the benefits.

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