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Easier than you might think...
Published on February 24, 2005 By dharmagrl In Health & Medicine

In light of a recent article I wrote about Teri Schiavo and the battleground her existence has become, I thought I'd post an article about Living Wills and Advance Medical Directives.

They're really very simple documents....you don't even need an attorney to draft one for you.  I found a good one here: Link  and I've copied the form to this article so y'all can see exactly what it looks like (and maybe include a little bit of explanation as well).  You can copy and print this if you need to.....

Instructions

Read each section carefully. Before you fill out the form talk to the person you want to name, to make sure that he/she understands your wishes and is willing to take the responsibility. Write your initials in the blank spaces before the choices you want to make. Write your initials only beside the choices you want under Parts 1, 2 and 3 of this form. Your advance directive should be valid for whatever part(s) you fill in, as long as it is properly signed.

Add any special instructions in the blank spaces provided. You can write additional comments on a separate sheet of paper, but you should write on this form that there are additional pages to your advance directive. Sign the form and have it witnessed. Give copies to your doctor, your nurse, the person you name to make your medical decisions for you, people in your family and anyone else who might be involved in your care. Discuss your advance directive with them.

Understand that you may change or cancel this document at any time.

Definitions to Know

Advance directive--A written document (form) that tells what a person wants or doesn't want if he/she in the future can't make his/her wishes known about medical treatment.

Artificial nutrition and hydration--When food and water are fed to a person through a tube.

Autopsy--An examination done on a dead body to find the cause of death.

Comfort care--Care that helps to keep a person comfortable but doesn't make him/her get well. Bathing, turning and keeping a person's lips moist are types of comfort care.

CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation)--Treatment to try to restart a person's breathing or heartbeat. CPR may be done by pushing on the chest, by putting a tube down the throat or by other treatment.

Durable power of attorney for health care--An advance directive that names someone to make medical decisions for a person if in the future he/she can't make his/her own medical decisions.

Life-sustaining treatment--Any medical treatment that is used to keep a person from dying. A breathing machine, CPR, and artificial nutrition and hydration are examples of life-sustaining treatments.

Living will--An advance directive that tells what medical treatment a person does or doesn't want if he/she is not able to make his/her wishes known.

Organ and tissue donation--When a person permits his/her organs (such as the eyes or kidneys) and other parts of the body (such as the skin) to be removed after death to be transplanted for use by another person or to be used for experimental purposes.

Persistent vegetative state--When a person is unconscious with no hope of regaining consciousness even with medical treatment. The body may move and the eyes may be open, but as far as anyone can tell, the person can't think or respond.

Terminal condition--An ongoing condition caused by injury or illness that has no cure and from which doctors expect the person to die even with medical treatment. Life-sustaining treatments will only prolong the dying process if the person is suffering from a terminal condition.


Complete this portion of advance directive form

I, ________________________________________________, write this document as a directive regarding my medical care.

In the following sections, put the initials of your name in the blank spaces by the choices you want.

PART 1. My Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care

______

I appoint this person to make decisions about my medical care if there ever comes a time when I cannot make those decisions myself. I want the person I have appointed, my doctors, my family and others to be guided by the decisions I have made in the parts of the form that follow.

Name:


Home telephone:


Work telephone:


Address:


 


If the person above cannot or will not make decisions for me, I appoint this person:

Name:


Home telephone:


Work telephone:


Address:


 


______

I have not appointed anyone to make health care decisions for me in this or any other document.

PART 2. My Living Will

These are my wishes for my future medical care if there ever comes a time when I can't make these decisions for myself.

A. These are my wishes if I have a terminal condition.

Life-sustaining treatments

______

I do not want life-sustaining treatment (including CPR) started. If life-sustaining treatments are started, I want them stopped.

______

I want the life-sustaining treatments that my doctors think are best for me.

______

Other wishes


Artificial nutrition and hydration

______

I do not want artificial nutrition and hydration started if they would be the main treatments keeping me alive. If artificial nutrition and hydration are started, I want them stopped.

______

I want artificial nutrition and hydration even if they are the main treatments keeping me alive.

______

Other wishes


Comfort care

______

I want to be kept as comfortable and free of pain as possible, even if such care prolongs my dying or shortens my life.

______

Other wishes


B. These are my wishes if I am ever in a persistent vegetative state.

Life-sustaining treatments

______

I do not want life-sustaining treatment (including CPR) started. If life-sustaining treatments are started, I want them stopped.

______

I want the life-sustaining treatments that my doctors think are best for me.

______

Other wishes


Artificial nutrition and hydration

______

I do not want artificial nutrition and hydration started if they would be the main treatments keeping me alive. If artificial nutrition and hydration are started, I want them stopped.

______

I want artificial nutrition and hydration even if they are the main treatments keeping me alive.

______

Other wishes


Comfort care

______

I want to be kept as comfortable and free of pain as possible, even if such care prolongs my dying or shortens my life.

______

Other wishes


C. Other directions

You have the right to be involved in all decisions about your medical care, even those not dealing with terminal conditions or persistent vegetative states. If you have wishes not covered in other parts of this document, please indicate them below.









PART 3. Other Wishes

A. Organ donation

______

I do not wish to donate any of my organs or tissues.

______

I want to donate all of my organs and tissues.

______

I only want to donate these organs and tissues:


______

Other wishes


B. Autopsy

______

I do not want an autopsy.

______

I agree to an autopsy if my doctors wish it.

______

Other wishes


C. Other statements about your medical care

If you wish to say more about any of the choices you have made or if you have any other statements to make about your medical care, you may do so on a separate piece of paper. If you do so, put here the number of pages you are adding: _________

PART 4. Signatures

You and two witnesses must sign this document before it will be legal.

A. Your signature

By my signature below, I show that I understand the purpose and the effect of this document.

Signature:


Date:


Address:


B. Your witnesses' signatures

I believe the person who has signed this advance directive to be of sound mind, that he/she signed or acknowledged this advance directive in my presence and that he/she appears not to be acting under pressure, duress, fraud or undue influence. I am not related to the person making this advance directive by blood, marriage or adoption nor, to the best of my knowledge, am I named in his/her will. I am not the person appointed in this advance directive. I am not a health care provider or an employee of a health care provider who is now, or has been in the past, responsible for the care of the person making this advance directive.

Witness #1

Signature:


Date:


Address:


Witness #2

Signature:


Date:


Address:


 

The best advice I can give to any of you (and this is the advice I give to everyone at the end of the will executions I witness at) is to make sure that your next of kin know of your wishes.  Make sure they know that you're making a LW/AMD, and be very clear about what you want to happen.

Also....it says it on the form, but DO NOT SIGN ANYTHING until you are in the presence of your witnesses.  People come in to where I work at to get documents notarized, and often they've already signed them...which can be a bit of a headache because I can't/won't notarize a document unless I see the person physically sign it in front of me (and witnesses if required).  This form doesn't require notarization, just so you know.

I cannot emphasize the importance of this kind of document.  The chances of anything catastrophic happening to you and this document being necessary are slim, true....but do you really want to take that chance?

If you have any questions, please ask... I'll do my best to answer them)


Comments
on Feb 24, 2005
A few years back there was a campaign at church for everyone to have a 'healthcare proxy', which sounds like another name for what your saying here. Unless you don't care what happens to you, and don't care that friends and family would have to decide for you, is a good idea to have one. Get things taken care of when your able to saves everyone a headache later on (if it's ever needed of course, if not then you just wasted a few minutes )
on Feb 24, 2005
Great article and doing this can save so many headaches...Of course this won't help if you have fanatics for relatives who don't think anyone should have the right to die under any circumstances....
on Feb 24, 2005
'healthcare proxy',

Yes, these are sort of the same thing. They're all documents that indicate a person's wishes reagrding healthcare and the right to die should they become incapacitated and unable to communicate.

doing this can save so many headaches...Of course this won't help if you have fanatics for relatives who don't think anyone should have the right to die under any circumstances....

Yes, it can save a LOT of headaches and heartaches. So can wills. People don't realize that even though they may not have belongings to leave to people after they've passed away, there are still things like bank accounts, debts, life insurance funds, children etc to be taken care of. For instance, if you're married and you have children and both you and your spouse die intestate (without having a will) it can take a court order to legally appoint your next-of-kin legal guardians of your children. Taking a little while to create a will can save a lot of time and expense for other people....

As for the fanatical relatives...well, they'd have to fight a long, expensive legal battle in order to contest it, and it doesn't happen very often.
on Feb 24, 2005
Hats off to you Karen for this "article"!!!!!

People never understand the problems caused by not making these uncomfortable decisions before it's too late!! Teri Schiavo is a good example of this, and even though her situation has gotten a lot of press, it really isn't all that rare.

You are right, filling out these forms is not that difficult. No matter how rough it might be to face our own mortality, it's even more rough to put "loved ones" through the smack-down-drag-'em-out fights that often follow the "unexpected".

Also, there are few things worse than having to run a full code on a 80 year old patient, whose family swore to you that she signed a DNR, but can't find it.

Guess what folks, no paperwork, we're treating the patient, as fully and aggresively as we have the means to.

Guess what else, no matter how much you complain about us doing so, if you didn't make sure all the papers are in order, It's Your Fault, Not Ours!!!