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Published on February 3, 2005 By dharmagrl In Current Events

I have been moved to tears more than a few times in the past few days.

The first time was when I saw film and pictures of women on the streets of Iraq, their fingers stained purple from having just cast their vote.  Women who, just last year, were sometimes prohibited from being alone in public, let alone from having a say in the future of their country.  To me, that is freedom in action...and that moves me.

The second time was when I saw the purple fingers and suits, the lavender and mauve ties in amongst the traditional red and black and blue garb  at the State Of The Union address.  That we as a people were able to show unity amongst (and despite) our diversity ...again, that, to me, is freedom in action.

The third (but I'm sure not the final) time was when the woman who's father had been killed by Saddam's regime turned and embraced a woman from Texas whose son had been killed in the battle for Fallujah.  Two women, from different countries, countries that at times seemed to be fighting for different things...two women, both of whom had suffered losses that at times seemed to great to bear.....two women, both of whom have paid the price for liberty and freedom.  Two women, united in their grief, but also united in their love of their countries.  Such a love that they gave of their flesh and blood in order to ensure that their children's children can both live in freedom.

That, to me, is freedom in action.  I don't care what your political or spiritual persuasion is, you simply cannot deny that freedom can, and will, reign.


Comments
on Feb 03, 2005
I too was moved to tears. I am very glad to see all the sacrifice of our Military is paying off. Our men joined the military knowing that it could lead them to fight in a war, and I am so greatful for them. To see the 2 woman embrace should show everyone that with patience good things can come. I think alot of people believe things should be instant. That is not how it is. Anyway thankyou for the thread. It was insightful and refreshing. May Freedom Ring!
on Feb 03, 2005
You got an insightful from me Karen.  I didn't see much of the State of The Union but I did see the embrace and it really touched me too.  I hope upon hope that freedom endures and spreads throughout the middle East.
on Feb 04, 2005
Very good article and a timely reminder to us all why we are there and what we are accomplishing.  To read the media on Iraq, one would easily dispair.  Thanks for setting the record straight.
on Feb 05, 2005
dharma -

I misted up just hearing the ovation & applause on the radio for Norwood's parents while that hug, unknown to me at the time, was occurring.

I misted up when I saw the video the next day.

I just misted up reading your post - powerfully eloquent, humbling words. You have a gift.

Thank you,
Daiwa
on Feb 05, 2005
this is not insightful and this is not eloquent

it is idealistic and pretentious

you don't know the people you see while you watch the evening news from a couch. you act like you understand half of what's going on out there just because you have friends or family in the military. none of you are out there and none of you have a real grasp of what happens in this world. you are not patrolling the streets of Baghdad, you are not taking pictures of Fallujah, you are not involved in any physical way with what is happening in Iraq but you sit at your computers at home and you decide to be philosophers for the night, you write what you think are well-spoken articles that aim to tug at heart strings and arouse feelings of righteousness and idealism.

there is nothing good or bad about what is happening in Iraq. it is something that has happened many times in the past and will happen many more times in the future. it is part of human existence and there will never be an end to this kind of conflict. "freedom" as you call it never really wins out, and i think you are being too idealistic to begin with. there is no good or evil to any of this, and there is never really a clear conclusion to international conflict. there is never really a point. nations and countries are erased regularly throughout history. the roman empire rose and fell and the world did not blink an eye. a couple hundred years from now the United States and Iraq will not exist and the world will still not blink an eye.

i realize that you and this internet community have grown too ignorant and inbred to really stop making a joke out of things like this, you all encourage each other to keep writing this kind of stuff and praise articles based on some kind of eloquence and verbal grace. you see a fight for good and right in Iraq. you think that good things are happening, or atleast are bound to happen. nothing will ever convince you otherwise and that's fine, i'm used to this kind of attitude. keep writing your 'insightful' articles, keep spouting this idealistic non-sense. i never expected to change anyone's perception. but you're all fucking disgusting and i hope that you all die in car accidents, or come down with crippling diseases, or fall down flights of stairs and break vital things. none of you deserve to share your thoughts until you stop trying to sound deep and insightful for an imaginary audience and aim instead to just see the world for what it is.

i am not against what the US is doing in Iraq. i don't support anything about it. the country has committed to it and so the country has to follow through. but the way you turn what is happening out there into some kind of group poetry session is honestly nothing less than pathetic.
on Feb 05, 2005

Daiwa...thank you.

John....  Have a big steraming cup of STFU and a nice big Trollhouse cookie to go right along with it, will ya? The mere fact that the people of Iraq are voting shows that there is more freedom in that country now than there was 2 years ago. 

In a way, your comment and thoughts on the situation are just as idealistic and pretentious as you claim mine are.

on Feb 05, 2005
john(Anonymous User)'s comments suggest he is an American. If so, he wouldn't have the freedom to make those comments were it not for "pathetic" people like dharma's husband and dharma. It's a shame he's such an arrogant, ungrateful cynic and deluded self-important bombthrower, but that is his privilege and he's welcome to make a fool of himself in this "ignorant and inbred" community all he wants.

Cheers,
Daiwa
on Feb 05, 2005
why are you accusing me of not being an advocate of some kind of freedom

"you write what you think are well-spoken articles that aim to tug at heart strings and arouse feelings of righteousness and idealism."

"none of you deserve to share your thoughts until you stop trying to sound deep and insightful for an imaginary audience and aim instead to just see the world for what it is."

"but the way you turn what is happening out there into some kind of group poetry session is honestly nothing less than pathetic."

i don't understand how you can get the idea that i don't believe in 'freedom.' i am as strong an American citizen as you are.

i am saying that you disgust me because you think it's something beautiful. soldiers in iraq are wanting to come home from the events that you say are beautiful. they are wanting to come home because those events are not beautiful. you are writing poetic prose on what is happening out there and you haven't spent a week in Iraq. you don't have a clue of what you are idealizing. you are doing it to project this image of personal depth and artistic insight and i hate you for it. i have not met you and i don't know what you look like or what you are doing with your life and i honestly hate you. i don't know why i am re-iterating my points. if you refused to acknowledge them the first time you will refuse them until the day you die.

the only way in which my comments are idealistic is in the fact that i expect adults to have a more realistic grasp on the world and a mature approach to expressing themselves. as far as my pretentions go, you don't see me trying to sound like a house-wife philosopher.

i expected a terrible response but this still surprised me. i'm not commenting anymore. you can all bury yourselves in bullshit and die believing in it.
on Feb 05, 2005
john - your spew won't be missed. Mindlessly insulting people and pejoratively presuming the motives of others contribute nothing, and usually get the same in return, deservedly so. Too bad you won't be back to see this, not that you're capable of understanding it, I'm afraid.

Cheers,
Daiwa
on Feb 05, 2005
Alternative response I was considering:

Hey, john - Thanks for stopping by. It's been swell.

But I knew he wouldn't see it, so...

Cheers,
Daiwa
on Feb 05, 2005

soldiers in iraq are wanting to come home from the events that you say are beautiful. they are wanting to come home because those events are not beautiful. you are writing poetic prose on what is happening out there and you haven't spent a week in Iraq.

Dude, you know nothing about me or mine, so once again, STFU.

I do more to support this country in one day than you have probably done in a lifetime, and guess what?  I'm not even an American citizen.  My husband has done more tours in the middle east than I care to recall, and he's shipping out again next month. I have sacrificed and we have struggled to do the right thing, not only for America, but for other people in the world.  I wish that you could go to the streets or Iraq and ask the people there, the ordinary man on the street what he wants.  I talk to people every day who do just that, and the majority of the Iraqi people WANT the US presence there. 

 Yes, horrible things have to happen in order for there to be freedom.  Everything has a price, you should know that.  My piece was about the beauty of freedom, the beauty of being able to see two women who had lost loved ones come together in their shared grief and embrace each other.

Too bad you missed the point entirely and had to use this article for your own agenda.  If you want to spout off again like that I'd suggest you take the 3 mins required to sign up for your own account and say whatever the hell you want to there.  Don't use my blog as your personal political platform.....only I have the right to do that here.