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Published on January 12, 2005 By dharmagrl In Misc

Well, I decided that I needed to get out of the house.  I don't want to go back to work because of all the upcoming stuff I have going on....surgeries, deployments etc etc.  I cannot ask an employer to let me make my own hours; that's just not fair.  But, I don't want to sit at home the whole time either, I need to start working on some kind of social network before D buggers off to parts unknown and leaves me all alone again.

The answer?  Volunteering.  I happend to call the Red Corss this morning and offer myself up...and they just happened to have gotten a call from the legal office yesterday afternoon, asking for help.  I just happen to have a decent amount of experience (enough to make me useful and somewhat dangerous) in the area they just happened to be looking for help in (actually, they were looking for all-aound help, so my prior experience is a huge plus)...so our two worlds collided and off I went to legal this afternoon for an interview.

I start tomorrow morning, in Military Justice.  I work the rest of the week (my own hours, yay!), then start in on what will hopefully be a regular Mon, Weds, and Fri 830am to 3pm or so gig.  I'll get moved around from department to department, so I'll get to do some claims, some contract law...all kinds of cool stuff. I have the option of not going if I don't want to or if something else comes up, I can change my hours if I want/have to....it's pretty much ideal (thus far, anyway). 

Plus, I got to meet some super-cool people, and they have work lined up for me already - and no, it's not just shredding and filing.  I get to do real world stuff - especially in Mil. Just., that's the criminal part of the house where all the Art 15's (non-judicial punishments)  and Art.32 hearings and judical punishments (ie Courts Martials) happen.  All the bad boys and girls come through that office...and believe it or not, it's actually a plus that my husband runs the jail on base, because I'll help deal with the cases and he'll deal with the bodies that get sentenced!

I'm feeling pretty damn good about it, actually.  I feel like this might not only benefit the legal office, it might just benefit me too.  It's all good experience....and you can't beat that.

I hope my suits still fit........

 


Comments
on Jan 12, 2005
Sounds really positive Dharma...
good work!
on Jan 12, 2005
Congratulations dharma!
on Jan 12, 2005
I'm like your husband, gotta deal with the bodies and listen (as I'm sure he'll tell you) to how they have been wronged, despite whatever stupid shit it is that they done. Good luck!
on Jan 12, 2005

I'm like your husband, gotta deal with the bodies and listen (as I'm sure he'll tell you) to how they have been wronged,

Yeah, but I'll have the goods...I'll be there from investigation to trial to sentencing.  I was before...when I worked military justice at our last base, D was a detective, so i was dealing with what he had started and heard some real sob stories from offenders coming in to see their ADC...a lot of which were about my husband! 

I had to sign a privacy and confidentiality agreement this afternoon.  I'm not allowed to talk, period, not until the case has been adjudicated...and even then I can't give any names.  However, there's something the military calls 'spousal privilege', which means thay know that husbands and wives tell each other things...so I'll be able to talk about most of it with him.  If the caseload here is anything like the caseload at our last base, it'll be a good thing....I dealt with a lot of pedophiles up there and learned things that made me physically ill.

on Jan 13, 2005
Hmmm... well lets see... now your working in a law field like my dad, and knit and like weiner dogs like my mom... this is scary... maybe your some long lost sister they are ashamed to admit too...

Glad to see your going to have something to pass the time with though hun, Hope you enjoy yourself Good to be volunteering also!!! Will help a lot if you ever do decide to go for a pay job
on Jan 13, 2005
Best wishes with this, dharma. You sound so excited, and they are lucky to have someone with your level of competence and experience. Seems like a really good fit.
on Jan 13, 2005
I'm glad you found something to do. I just can't sit and do nothing day after day too. That's why I attend college and work.
on Jan 13, 2005

Hmmm... well lets see... now your working in a law field like my dad, and knit and like weiner dogs like my mom... this is scary... maybe your some long lost sister they are ashamed to admit too...

Dude, I would be proud to be your sister!  Hey, I have a friend who used to be a B1 pilot who's agreeable to helping you out with any questions you might have...if you want his email addy, let me know.

You sound so excited, and they are lucky to have someone with your level of competence and experience. Seems like a really good fit.

Hehe...I know enough to make me useful yet dangerous at the same time!  Seriously, I'm really looking forward to going back to the law again, especially military law.  It's really very interesting...

 

I'm glad you found something to do. I just can't sit and do nothing day after day too.

I'm quite happy to do nothing a couple of days a week, but I can't do it every day.  I have to find a balance between what my body will let me do without complaining too much, and what I want to do...hopefully this will work for both parts!

 

on Jan 13, 2005
dharma, how exciting. I love doing volunteer work and your new form of it sound fascinating. Good luck!
on Jan 14, 2005
Would Love to talk to your friend Dharma... I'll pass ya an email so that you know my addy...