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Published on November 21, 2004 By dharmagrl In Health & Medicine

Today is the fifth day that my boy Jake has been on Concerta for his ADD.

It's been going remarkably well so far. 

Day one, his teacher sent him home with a note saying that she had used his math worksheet as an example for the rest of the class.  Usually Jake's work is all over the page; this time, though, he had lined all his equations up neatly and had written them clearly.  A total turnaround from his usual work.

Day two, she sent yet another note home saying that she had seen a marked difference in his behaviour, that he was able to sit with the rest of the class and follow the lesson - he used to fidget constantly and had no clue what the lesson was about when he was called upon to answer a question.

Yesterday was day four, and it was the first time I had had the opportunity to see what he was like thoughout the day.  He played basketball at the playground, and didn't come home crying - in the past he's always come home in tears because he got kicked out of the game for not waiting his turn and generally being too hyper and irritating.  He sat on the couch with me yesterday afternoon and watched 'I Am Sam'...and managed to watch the entire movie without losing interest.  That's a huge accomplishment for Jake, the eternal fidgeter.

This morning he's working on a shoebox diorama of a rainforest.  In the past he would have done it in a hurry, just thrown some stuff together and called it good...but today he drew out a plan on a sheet of paper, then set about coloring the background of his shoebox, cutting and coloring and sticking the animals and trees and plants.  As I write this, he's at the table making paper 'springs' so that his critters can have a 3-D effect. 

The only side effect he's complained about thus far has been a mild headache yesterday afternoon.  I haven't noticed much, if any, appetite loss and he's not 'zombified'.

He's just being Jake.  A more focused, less fidegty and flighty Jake.

That makes me happy.


Comments
on Nov 21, 2004
I'm glad your happy. Definetly sounds like things are going better for Jake.
on Nov 21, 2004

I'm glad your happy.

I am, Danny.  Very happy.

Definetly sounds like things are going better for Jake.

Thay are, very much so.  The difference is incredible.  Makes me wish I had done something about it sooner....

on Nov 21, 2004
Hey, none of that now. You did something, it's better now, that's the important part.
on Nov 21, 2004
I'm glad you are having success with Concerta, and especially with the lowest dosage. Hopefully he won't even need to have it increased. Isn't it wonderful to know that he is able to meet his potential and doesn't have to go around feeling guilty because he can't focus and can't seem to control his behavior? ADD is so hard on them because they want to do their best and can't and they begin to feel worthless and guilty. I'm very glad to hear that the Concerta isn't affecting his personality as well.

You're doing a good thing, mommy!
on Nov 21, 2004

I'm glad you are having success with Concerta, and especially with the lowest dosage. Hopefully he won't even need to have it increased.

At the moment I can't forsee that being necessary.  As he grows, it probably will...but by then Jake will have learnt some skills to manage his symptoms so it may not be too drastic of a change.

Isn't it wonderful to know that he is able to meet his potential and doesn't have to go around feeling guilty because he can't focus and can't seem to control his behavior?

He is just so proud of himself!  He comes and shows me what he did, the grade that his teacher gave him for his work, and says "you told me if I got B's you'd sign me up to play pee-wee football...well, get ready momma, 'cos I'm getting A's!!" 

ADD is so hard on them because they want to do their best and can't and they begin to feel worthless and guilty.

He was so frustrated with himself.  He so wanted to do as well as his siblings and just didn't have the focus...he ended up not wanting to go to school because he was ashamed.

I'm very glad to hear that the Concerta isn't affecting his personality as well

That was my biggest fear, Tex.  That he'd not be Jake anymore.  Luckily, he's still himself!

Thanks!  I'm a proud mom!!

on Nov 21, 2004
I'm awesome that it's working! Totally groovy! You can't see me, but I'm doing the happy happy joy joy dance!

(you gotta admit though, it would be awfully cool to have a zombie slave for a kid that did all the housework, and that you could sic on your evil neighbors, to eat their brains...........)
on Nov 22, 2004
Dharma,

As a mother of a severely ADHD child (I think Zombie posted our story), I want to say, "Well done, Mom." Isn't it amazing! You always see the potential and brilliance of your child, but now through the miracles of science, so can everyone else. I remember vividly the instantaneous change in our son. He went for making 34's on his report card to an honor roll student. Sometimes, I miss the "Robin Williams" characteristics he had before medication, but the benefits far outweigh that. He also seems so much more confident in his own abilities. It is a beautiful thing to observe.

Keep up the good work, Mom!
on Nov 22, 2004

You can't see me, but I'm doing the happy happy joy joy dance!

Aww, thank you!  It's nice to see that other people were concerned about Jake too!

"Well done, Mom." Isn't it amazing!

Thank you!  it truly is an amazing thing to see.  The difference that one simple medication can make...it;s really quite stunning.

. It is a beautiful thing to observe

You got that right!

on Nov 23, 2004

That is so wonderful dharma!  It sounds like Jake feels more in control of himself too and isn't that really the battle?  I know I have felt out of control of myself due to hormones and it is an awful thing to deal with.  Some people are so anti-drug that they refuse to see the benefits that even mild medication can have.  I don't think you can understand it until you have experienced it on some level though.


I am so happy for you, Jake and Jake's teacher   I have worked with some kids in my son's 2nd grade class that could certainly benefit from some medication.  I understand that kids have short attention spans but some of these kids can't stay focused long enough to listen to two sentences.

on Nov 23, 2004
Wheewww:
I am so happy that this is working out for you and Jake. IT always worries me when a kid has to be put on this kind of medication. But it looks like the results are Awesome for Jake!
on Nov 23, 2004

It sounds like Jake feels more in control of himself too and isn't that really the battle?


That was the ultimate result, yes.  He needed to get himself under control, and the best way to kick that process off was medication. Now that he's on it, he can compare how he feels when he's off to how he feels when he's on and see the difference.  He's also going to be starting some counselling sessions to learn coping skills....so hopefully he can stay on the lowest dose of Concerta for a while!


But it looks like the results are Awesome for Jake!


That it does, and that was ultimately the goal!


thanks for the comments!!