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Published on November 2, 2004 By dharmagrl In Misc

I love to watch my husband shave.

He knows it, and indulges me. 

The ritual, the routine...it fascinates me. 

The way he turns his head this way and that, cranes his neck, tilts his jaw...all in an effort to rid himself of the last elusive whiskers.  The way the blade makes a clean swath across his face, the specks that are left in the sink.....the pins of blood that bloom pink into the foam should he be careless enough to nick himself. 

The smell and feel of his newly shaved skin as he presses his face to mine when he's done....there's nothing quite like it. 

Some of the best conversations we've had have been conducted in our bathroom, him with razor in hand and me perched on the toilet seat lid. 

There's something about watching him shave that I love.


Comments
on Nov 02, 2004
It's interesting the little domestic rituals that spring up, isn't it?

on Nov 02, 2004

It's interesting the little domestic rituals that spring up, isn't it?

Yes, and they're not always mine....I like watching other people go about their daily business.  It's interesting to me the habits that people get into...like me, for example.  First thing in the morning, I have a routine, and disrupting that routine makes me feel like I'm not quite right for the rest of the day.

I like to people watch, I guess.

on Nov 02, 2004
Very good writing, I am impressed as I like that kind of thing rather than all the political stuff.

Worthy of this here insightful...
on Nov 02, 2004
I love watching people go thru their little routines too..like just putting or their shoes or making coffee or whatever. I' m so nosy.

I felt like this conveyed real love without being all smushy and cliched. It's writing about all those little things that add up to the person you love that I find most poignant.

Dyl xx
on Nov 02, 2004

Shovel....thank you, kind sir!

Dyl...thank you!  I don't like smushiness, I try to stay away from it as much as I can.....I'm glad you got them emotion in this!

on Nov 02, 2004
my wife and I are lucky enough to work at the same school, so we have our morning routine -- it's almost holy...Mikey gets up, showers, then turns off the alarm so Amy doesn't have to hear it...then we chat about whatever crazy dreams we had...great post, Dharma, you got me thinking, so Imma give this *insightful*
on Nov 02, 2004
Thanks, Myrr....
on Nov 02, 2004
Isn't it fun to think about those special moments with your significant other? My fiance and I have moments like that right before we fall asleep. Actually, since he's away, I miss those moments more and more!
on Nov 02, 2004

My fiance and I have moments like that right before we fall asleep. Actually, since he's away, I miss those moments more and more!

Where's he at, Alison?

on Nov 02, 2004
This is beautiful, dharma. I adore the thoughts behind it, and the writing is just beautiful. I love it!
on Nov 03, 2004
I'm amazed no one said this before, so being the smartass that I am I have to say it.... one simple word... Kinky!

on Nov 04, 2004

I also love to watch Him sleep...its the only time His face is totally relaxed and peaceful looking...and listen to Him breathe, and yes, snore. It doesnt bother me a bit.

Yanno, I yearned to hear him snore when he was gone.....now that he's back, it irritates me, but I still find it incredibly comforting.

I'm amazed no one said this before, so being the smartass that I am I have to say it.... one simple word... Kinky!

Nah...kinky would be me shaving him....or him shaving me !!!!