This isn't being dragged out of me, this is being done voluntarily.  This isn't a manipulation, this isn't a plea, this is just a statement of fact.

Frank, I give a shit about you, and about your situation. It bothers me that you're upset with me BECAUSE I give a shit.  I'm glad that you've found someone you love, and I'm glad that you have found some way to help those less fortunate than yourself.  I think that's an admirable thing to do, considering that you are on a limited income...I'm reminded of the parable of the widow's mite.

I may be persona non grata to you, and if you want to we can talk about that away from the JU spotlight.  If you dont, then that's fine too, but I wanted to make it publicly known how I felt.

Just take this message for what it is.  I don't think I could have made it any clearer.