I'm a child molester.

Published on June 18, 2004 By dharmagrl In Misc

Yes, that's the latest in my neighborhood. Little kids aren't allowed to come into our house to play because I might molest, torture and beat them. My son's friend told me that's what his parents told him (his mother is the one who called my husband and told him I was sleeping with strange men in our bed 5 days after I wrecked my truck). His parents are close friends with the moron's I've been complaining about, the ones who reported me for neglect and abuse earlier this year - which, btw was deemed 'Unsubstantiated - Did not occur' by Family Advocacy.

You know, I might be a lot of things but child molester is not one of them. I'm hurt, and I'm angry. I also want vengence. The first time I hear those words from any other child all the women involved in this will be receiving a 'Cease and Desist' letter from my attorney and I will be speaking with their husband's Commanders and First Sergeants. It's slanderous, and it's defamatory, and I will not tolerate it.

Thay want to play dirty, it seems. That's fine. Bring it on.

Comments (Page 3)

dharmagrl

on Jun 20, 2004

Well, there's been much backtracking done overnight....now it's my 10 year old son who's the molester and torturer.

That's worse. That pisses me off more than them making slanderous comments about me. He's a little boy, for christ's sakes. How low can they go? They've gone from starting rumors about me to saying stuff about my son.

To make matters worse, my little guy was riding his bike by one of their houses yesterday and he waved and said "Hi, Miss B" like he ususally does. Her response (Verified by my daughter and her friend) was "Don't talk to me. You all lie too much for you to be able to talk to me". How fucking mature is that?! Talking like that to a 7 year old child?

I also heard that if I had a problem with them, I could step outside and talk to them about it....so I did. They walked away.

I think that pretty much sums them up.

Exar Kuun

on Jun 20, 2004

....now it's my 10 year old son who's the molester and torturer.

"Don't talk to me. You all lie too much for you to be able to talk to me".

Dharmagirl I seriously think you should get the base commander involved on this one before they get any more out of hand than they have. Are you dealing with it OK yourself?

dharmagrl

on Jun 20, 2004

I'm ok, Exar. Thanks for asking.....

I'm going to talk to the First Sgt tomorrow morning. I'm done with this. They did something like this to someone else last year, and now they've started on me. If nothing else, I want to make sure someone with some authority is aware of what's going on, because I have a feeling I'm going to either get a visit from the police or a call from social services shortly.

Having seen them destroy someone else, I can predict what they'll do next. If I can call it before it happens and the people that matter see that - well, that'll blow their little game right out of the water. They don't have a whole lot of credibility as it is, having made false allegations previously....but one more will pretty much seal their fate.

I don't want to get anyone kicked off base, or out of family housing....all I want is for them to be stopped. If it takes the base commander (who's already aware of them and their bullshit, having driven down our street to see their gang stickers for himself - the stickers got removed shortly thereafter. I wonder why that was?) to do that, then so be it. I want them to be shown the error of their ways.

simplethings

on Jun 20, 2004

I've been dealing with people like that for 4 years now... they don't seem to ever grow up. The base I'm living on right now is a little bit better than the last. Luckily. . . A woman next door to me is always causing some kind of trouble. She uses all sorts of crap to drag me down especially right now, mainly because I'm pregnant and my husband isn't home. She has told her husband and about half of the state that I've slept around and that my baby is not my husbands, luckily, my husband and her husband are friends and her husband told my husband (yeah this is confusing) to tell me to ignore her antics, because she's been known to do this sort of stuff and it's gotten them kicked off of another base before. So yeah, i feel your thoughts. It's a bunch of crap, these women never seem to be able to pull whatever it is they have stuck up their a** out.

Emma

pseudosoldier

on Jun 20, 2004

dharma - I don't think that "showing them the error of their ways" is going to work very effectively. They don't seem to be the type to back down off of something like this, only weasel if it appears they will get in trouble. This will most likely result in a lot of confrontation and heartburn for you, and probably needs to be resolved by *someone* moving away.
Having said this, I fully agree that you can't take this laying down any more. Good luck.

Jay Walker

on Jun 21, 2004

I'm going to talk to the First Sgt tomorrow morning. I'm done with this. They did something like this to someone else last year, and now they've started on me.

Sounds like you're going in the right direction. Remember that Thomas Jefferson said one person with courage is a majority. You are the majority.

Good luck ...

BigDreamer415

on Jun 21, 2004

To make matters worse, my little guy was riding his bike by one of their houses yesterday and he waved and said "Hi, Miss B" like he ususally does.

Is that "B" for bitch?

Sorry you're goin' through this... hope all went well this morning.

~Sarah

dharmagrl

on Jun 21, 2004

It went wonderfully, actually. I made a couple of calls, visited with a couple of people, and we're all squared away. I'm writing a statement documenting everything that's been said and done, and I'm turning it in. Apparently the First Sergeants involved are fed up with them, and the base commander has taken an interest in what's been going on as well.....that's rare. The base commander's kids used to baby sit for us, btw....not that that's going to have any influence on him, but it does give him a little background.

They picked the wrong person to fuck with. That statement isn't meant to make me seem powerful or special.....they just screwed with me for the last time and I know who to talk to to get something done about it. I'm not taking this laying down, and they don't seem to realize that....yet.

carebear07

on Jun 21, 2004

Sorry to hear that this is happening. Why on Earth would anyone think that you are a molester? That's insane! Even though I don't know you in person, I deffinatly don't see you molesting a child.
Good Luck!
~carebear~

messybuu

on Jun 21, 2004

I'm happy that you're turning the tide. Nobody should ever spread such vicious rumors about anybody, especially children.

dharmagrl

on Jun 21, 2004

I have thought long and hard about why they might do this, about their reasoning for being such total bitches.

The impression that they seem to give is that they're perfect. They wear designer-name clothes, they have the newest vehicles, they have immaculate houses with big screen TV's and new furniture......to them, it's all about image. Who they are is defined by what they've got, not by their persona. I'm just not like that. I never have been like that. I'm not perfect, I make no attempt to appear perfect. I'm different. They don't like 'different'.

They also have this attitude that if you're not their 'friend' then you're the enemy. I'm not like that either. I refused earlier this year to get involved in a silly dispute, and it was after that that all this crap started. Just because I don't come out swinging for them, because I prefer to mind my own beeswax and remain neutral, I'm automatically the enemy. To them , there is no grey, the world is all black and white.

So, I'm the enemy to them because I'm different from them, and because I'm a grown up.

You know, I want, if and when we leave, to go around to their houses, knock on the door and say "Hi! I'm leaving, now, and I just wanted you to know that I think you're a total fucking cunt and that I'm just sad that I won't be around to see the bad karma you've created catch up with you! I hope someone makes your life as miserable as you tried to make mine, you fucking bitch! Buh-bye now!" Lonesome says it's not a good idea. I know it's not a good idea, but it would be soooooo satisfying!

Btw, I don't drop the 'c' word very often. Someone has to have really pissed me off before that word gets used. These idiots though...are thoroughly deserving of it.

Exar Kuun

on Jun 21, 2004

Glad to see the first sergeants took notice dharma

on Jun 22, 2004

going to talk to the First Sgt tomorrow morning

That's good, you tried your best to resolve, but there's always a point where it becomes pointless. I'm glad it went well.

They also have this attitude that if you're not their 'friend' then you're the enemy.

I know those kind. There's a version of car drivers that never ever uses no gas and no brakes. Those people always use gas or brakes. When they are at back of a slower cars, they always speed up and brake repeatedly. I hate those drivers. It's something called false diacomy(sp) (show it as only 2 sides while it's actually more than that).

Something like "If you're not my friend you're my enemy" is a false diacomy. I don't like those who holds those views.

Poetmom99

on Jun 22, 2004

Well, there's been much backtracking done overnight....now it's my 10 year old son who's the molester and torturer. That's worse. That pisses me off more than them making slanderous comments about me. He's a little boy, for christ's sakes. How low can they go? They've gone from starting rumors about me to saying stuff about my son.

OMGosh! You're right, that IS even worse...that would have me seeing red, and going after them in a heartbeat. BTDT, and it was NOT a pretty sight, let me tell ya!!

I also heard that if I had a problem with them, I could step outside and talk to them about it....so I did. They walked away.I think that pretty much sums them up.

The word "coward" comes to mind....they talk a good game, but don't have the guts to back it up. No surprise there.

Sounds like you're handling things very well. Just stay on top of the situation, as if I had to tell you that....and watch your back, girl.

Ah, the military equivalent of the Stepford Wives....I know the type very well....

Lonesome's right, but it sure makes for some good fantasizing, doesn't it?

dharmagrl

on Jun 22, 2004

The word "coward" comes to mind....they talk a good game, but don't have the guts to back it up. No surprise there.

Yep. No balls whatsoever. I'm not going to degrade myself by getting into a yelling match in the street either. I have more class than that; I refuse to drop to their level. If they have something to say, they can say it to my husband's or their husband's First Sergeants.

The whole situation is out of my hands now. They took it this far...the military is going to take it further. The thing that they don't seem to understand is that it's a privilege, not a right, to live in military housing. You don't want to rock the boat too much or else you'll get tossed out....and from what I have head from people with some rank in the past 24hrs is that the base commander is tired of the childishness and isn't going to tolerate much more. One of them already got asked to leave, I would have thought that the others would have learned from that.

Apparently not...and that's just fine with me.

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