I always wondered where those petty bitchy high school girls end up. Now I know.

Yeah, they're all living next to me.   I think I'm a magnet for them or something.

Now I know


too funny!

Dharma, I honestly don't know what to say. Like kingbee I am entirely speechless. That people would even think to say something so horrible about you blows my mind. But that they would then actually start saying it???

I am dumbfounded.

I agree with you and those who have posted. No restraint. Go for the jugular. With truth on your side you will prevail. Know that (and I am sure you already to) there are many, many of us here who are standing beside you (some of us with big, big baseball bats!). You are just too good a person for someone to say such terrible things. I will send all the positive vibes your way I can.

Dev, I'm just as speechless.

Thank you, what you said means a lot to me.  It's just hard, dig?  Being without my husband, alone here with the kids...having friends like you all makes a difference, it makes me feel not quite so isolated.

I wonder sometimes if they'd be pulling this crap were Lonesome here.

Geez. It's a good thing you're being transferred soon. Some people need to get a damn life.

The irony is that real molesters don't get harrassed like that.  They usually live in blissful anonymity.  I wish I were as shocked as others but I have been witness to some jaw dropping slander in my day.  I am just glad to hear that you aren't going to take it.

It is weird how much power these bitchy twits think they have when they form groups.  They would never pull that shit individually but somehow congregating gives them more courage.  I am sure you will be successful in putting them back in their holes where they belong.

You go cyber-sis!

Lawsuit for slander! Being accused of child molestation is slander, and you could really hand their asses to them with a lawsuit (and maybe make some money off it too!).

Well, I'll give you a bit of advice...if the courts can't handle it...then a baseball bat, brass knuckles, or a tire iron can....

They would never pull that shit individually but somehow congregating gives them more courage.

They all sit around concocting ways to fuck with people..I've seen them do it. One of them comes up with an idea, and before you know it it's the gospel truth...they have a knack of confusing reality with fiction. They did it to someone else on the street, and it got taken to their husband's commanders...even the base commander knew about it. They all got warned that this behaviour wasn't going to be tolerated...so my going to First Sergeant's and Commander's with this latest allegation might be the straw that breaks the camel's back. I wasn't going to go that route, but the more I think about it, the more I want to. A lawsuit isn't something that I'm terribly interested in...I have enough stress at the moment without going through that. If I did file suit I'd have to return to SD for the court date, and depending on where we go that might not be practical. That's why I'd rather have a 'Cease and Desist' letter sent...it's kind of a warning shot that says "cut it out, and cut it out now, or we'll sue." Brass knuckles et al aren't going to happen. Right now I have the law on my side, and I'm not going to do anything to jeopardize that. As long as I keep all the action legit and above board I'll win.

Teresa, I talked to Lonesome about it, and in the event that we get re-stationed here, we're looking for a house off base. I'm not living like this anymore.

That's good news! Hopefully it won't come to that, though, and you'll have better neighbors at your next assignment.

As long as I keep all the action legit and above board I'll win

yup. the best revenge in this kinda thing is lettin the system do the work for you

Dharmagirl,

I find it amazing they can't see the difference between disliking someone and going that extra step and slandering. Go get 'em tiger!

I find it amazing they can't see the difference between disliking someone and going that extra step and slandering.

They can't, obviously.  That's the difference between grown-ups and children, I guess.  As a grown up I can dislike someone and leave it at that.  What they're doing to me is akin to my 8 year old saying "I don't like so-and-so, they're a doo-doo head" and then going and telling all his friends so- and -so is in fact a doo-doo head.

If they had said I was a bitch, or a slut, or a whore, or a dumbass, I'd have left it.  That's their opinion, and they're entitled to it.  This, however, is a different ball of wax.  This is serious. 

 

 

Huh?? You?? Child molester?? Obviously Dharma they are jealous of you big time!. I take heart in your courage and strength especially what you show on here. You stand up for your convictions. You display a generous and loving heart. (ive only been blogging on here for a couple of weeks) and Dharma already you have shown amazing qualities to me that I havent had from people i have known all my life!. Be strong! Sounds like these women have nothing better to do but concoct in their little covens. Doesnt make it easier or more confortable for you living there. Sending you lots of strength and energy to deflect these strange people! Hugs!

Jeez that's talking it way past the lines. I hope you will get out of it okay.