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Published on June 2, 2004 By dharmagrl In Misc

..with nobody else.  Gotta love George Thorogood, huh?

Yes, I drink alone.  No, I'm not an alcoholic.  I don't drink every night and I rarely drink to excess, but that's neither here nor there.  I drink alone because I find that alcohol removes what I like to call my 'truth filter'.  I like to think of myself as a somewhat tactful person, and when I've had a few drinks that vanishes.  I'm blunt...painfully so sometimes.  So, in order to maintain friendships and relationships, I drink alone.  Occasionally I'll make an exception and have a few with really close friends....those who I've already spoken my mind to or who I know won't take offence to my lack of tact, but for the most part I don't get inebriated in public, or even with acquaintances. 

The reason I blog about this now is because I'm drinking.  Tonight.  Right now, actually.  I re-read my blogs, and in my alcohol-fuzzy state was really tempted to edit and re-post them, this time with names.  I read some other people's stuff and was again tempted to leave comments, this time saying what I felt in a much less...errmm...nice way.  Luckily (for me) I'm not drunk.  I'm not lit.  I'm not even buzzed (almost, but not quite).  So, I won't do any of that.  I'll keep my 'truth filter' firmly in place and be as tactful as I can be, even if what's being said makes me madder than a wet hen. 

I highly reccomend that some of you do the same.  Even if you haven't been drinking.


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on Jun 04, 2004

You're an Air force wife, likely alone a lot, likely missing your husband a lot, that's a cocktail, IN MY MIND, for someone to have a problem if they drink a lot.


Umm...did you miss the part where I said that I don't drink frequently and rarely to excess?  I can count on the fingers of one hand the number of times I've touched alcohol in the past 10 months....and I can tell you that the last time I was drunk was my birthday last year.  If I felt like getting lit every night, I could, and I would.  I don't, because I don't want to.  It's that simple.


And, mind you, I DID touch a nerve on an earlier thread.


No, you didn't, no matter what you may think.


Thank you for your concern.


 

on Jun 04, 2004
Miki~ I think you missed the whole point of this light hearted blog. Not everything needs to be taken seriously.
on Jun 04, 2004
Hey, why can't this just be a fine thing? Drinking maximises your persona. Warts and all.... Nothing wrong with that, unless you happen to be a crazed, mass-murdering-like guy (or gal). Most people are something in between a saint and Satan. It can make you honest. And I for one need that. No need to explain...

I'm in a positively peaceful (and possibly, quite muddy...) mood today. Feel like John Lennon, as a matter of fact.

Peace, Y'all
on Jun 04, 2004

I'm in a positively peaceful (and possibly, quite muddy...) mood today. Feel like John Lennon, as a matter of fact.


Been smoking?

on Jun 04, 2004
John Lennon! Lol. Dharm sorry again it's good to know you drink so infrequently. I don't know why, it's not in my family, I don't have any problems with it, I just can't stand the problems wrought by the bottle. I know people, like my best friends, who drink frequently, not every night though, but frequently, and it appears they can handle it, but take it away for good an whoa, you got a small unit of hardened killers ready for Iraq's rauchiest suburbs. Lol. Almost serious there. I hate the stuff even though I tie one on for every Flames game, meaning 4 beers over 3 hours and I'm a jerk too! "awg yer Timba Bay Lightnin' thuck the donger mahn! *slobber drool*. Lol. Peace. But...don't you classify our 'bout' as butting heads? I thought things were flared a bit. Anyways, you know the drill...peace.
on Jun 04, 2004

No, I didn't classify our bout as butting heads.  You gave your opinion of me, and I told you you were wrong.  I know me, you don't, so until someone who knows me almost as well as I know myself comes along (ie my husband) and tells you that you're right...well, I'm right.  Or, until you come live at my house and deal with my personally on a daily basis....until you see for yourself, in other words....I'm right.

on Jun 04, 2004
can I move into your house for a while. I can do something to get myself in the doghouse with my wife, you know, then it's like, 'hey, no guilt"!. lol.
on Jun 07, 2004
hmmmm........I have to agree with Corio in that "drinking maximises your persona". Does anyone else find it odd that mikimouse, "hates the stuff even though [he] ties one on for every Flames game, meaning 4 beers over 3 hours and [he's] a jerk too!" Just a question....
on Jun 07, 2004

95 times out of 100 I am a happy-go-lucky drunk. Most folks have a very hard detectign my drunkenness until it becomes extreme. Those other 5 times out of the 100 though... Well the guy I dropped into the bottom of my mind well long ago comes out then. He is the one I have fed all the negative things in my life he and he *hates* me and eveyone one I love. When the right set of circumstances convene (stress, sleep deprivation, and borderline alcohol poisoning) I black out and speak with a new voice. This 8thing* inside my head takes over and lashes out in the coldest most calculating of manners. He is devastating. Fortunately my ody cannot sustain consciousness for long in this state and so he only gets a few minutes in control every year. Those minutes take a lot of explaining though.

on Jun 07, 2004

Greywar...?  You're that guy?  I never would have imagined it!


I have the same person too...she shows herself once in a blue moon (more if you listen to Lonesome) for a few seconds then she passes out.  When I wake up the real 'me' appears again..

on Jun 07, 2004

I thought I would chime in today.  Lowering ones inhibition causes the perceived boundaries that exist in social situations to become blurred allowing the interaction between two individuals to be less candid.  As a college student this is something I take part in all the time.  Getting a few drinks with friends can be rewarding and actually lift my mood for the week.  I find that when on any date that I go on it can loosen the mood and allow us to ease the apprehension of having to put a front for a new person we are interested in.  Drinking socially, or we will say twice a week, does not neccessarily mean there is a problem.  The definition of abuse can be said to be when alcohol starts affecting other people around you and/or your work or school in a negative way.  Dharma you seem to show restraint and have established limits for yourself which shows experience.  Theres nothing wrong with that, I say cheers.

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