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Published on May 25, 2004 By dharmagrl In Home & Family

I'm going to certifably insane by the end of the summer.

The madness in this house has already begun, and it's not even June yet.

It's my boys.  A prime example of sibling rivalry at it's finest.  One always has to be better than the other. One always has to be 'top dog', and if it means physically beating the other into submission then so be it.

Every evening for the past week they've got into a fist fight.  Every evening I've separated them and admonished them for their violence.  Instead of diminishing, the animosity has been escalating.

I spoke to Lonesome about it yesterday.  I said I didn't know if I could do this all summer. He said that they were boys, and that that's what boys did - fight.  Especially brothers.  He said to let them knock the crap out of each other, to not step in.  Alright, I thought, I'll let them have at it. 

Tonight it came to a head.  Davey and Jake were going to play "poker" (not real poker, something Davey created so he can make up the rules as he goes along and beat the pants off Jake - sibling rivalry again).  They got into an argument over the poker chips.  Pushing and shoving ensued, and before I knew it, a full-on brawl was taking place in my living room.  Davey had Jake in a head lock, Jake broke free and caught Davey with a left hook, knocking his glasses off, cutting his eye and bruising his face.  The glasses flew across the room, mangled and missing a lens.  Both boys started screaming that they were hurt, Davey holding his bloodied face and Jake holding his skinned and reddened knuckles.  I stood there and laughed.  I couldn't help it.  I tried not to let them see, I attempted to cover up my giggles with feigned anger and irritation...and I think it worked.  I was just so......so......I don't know how to describe it, other than to say that when you're at the end of your tether your emotions get all mixed up and inappropriate.

So, a trip to the optical shop and some ice and band-aids later, we're all speaking to each other again.

Until tomorrow.  I can guarantee that it will happen again tomorrow.  Perhaps not to this degree, but it will happen.

I'm going to be certifiably insane by the end of the summer.


Comments (Page 2)
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on May 25, 2004
its a wonder anyone lives to be 17
on May 25, 2004

just wait a couple more years til they discover girls!  then you'll really know what stress is!  hehehe


my brother used to beat the shit out of me when we were young, and I turned out o.k... things will be alright girl...  

on May 26, 2004

my brother used to beat the shit out of me when we were young, and I turned out o.k...

That's debatable....!!! Just kidding, MJ.

on May 26, 2004
Hehe, that made me giggle sorry! Coming from a family of all girls, I can say girls are just as bad! My sister pushed me out of my highchair when I was tiny, and so the fighting began from there! We still fight now, and we're adults but we love each other and would do anything for each other. That didn't help did it, I'm sure they will grow out of it, and kingbee's suggestion sounds good, because in general siblings will look out for each other no matter what! Good luck!
on May 26, 2004

My boys are 7 and 3 and have their daily spats already.  Mostly just power struggle stuff right now.  Little brother is always throwing stuff at big brother though.  He hit big brother in the eye the other day and got a good spank for it.  Seems to have worked for the moment.


I do agree it is amazing that any of us live to be 17.  My sister and I went through a plate glass window and mangaed to come out unharmed.  We never had a fist fight though.  My cousin was into gouging us with her fingernails.  That was pretty wicked.  I don't think kids are easy no matter what the sex.  They sure do have a way of making us appreciate our parents!

on May 26, 2004

I'm starting to wonder how in the blue blazes anyone here made it to their 18th birthday.

My younger brother had long nails that he used to like to use on my skin and flesh...I in turn swatted at him with a zippered hoodie and lacerated his scalp.  He kicked me in the face once and blacked my eye.  Lonesome and his sister used to fight, get sent to their adjoining rooms, and still fight with each other from their respective doorways.

Wolf-man Dave....man, you boys were wild!!!!  I really am surprised that you ever made it out of your teens...scaling walls with jump ropes...drinking medications....did your parents go grey at an early age?

I think I'll be totally grey by August.

 

on May 26, 2004
My twin and I still fight occasionally. And we're 34.

We were very violent kids but we love each other very much. I always felt guilty after hitting her, and she says she did, too. However, I know that she never held back with a punch, while I could never give her it all...

Good luck, sister! I feel for you.
on May 26, 2004

Thanks. Nicky....I hope that my boys turn out as well as you and your sister did.  There's just no mercy with them, dig?  When they get into it there is no holding back, they just hit as hard and as fast as they can.

MJ, Davey has already discovered girls.  There are 3 or 4 little girls who call the house or come by to see if Davey can play...one of them makes him walk her home and hold her hand because she's "scared". Hmmm.  I don't know if I like that or not.

Jake still thinks girls have cooties and are not to be messed with....thank goodness.

on May 26, 2004
Reading these accounts it is also surprising that any parents make it past their kids 18th birthdays......
on May 26, 2004

Very true, Gerry....without being alcoholics or having nervous twitches.

on May 27, 2004
Until tomorrow. I can guarantee that it will happen again tomorrow. Perhaps not to this degree, but it will happen.

I'm going to be certifiably insane by the end of the summer.


If it makes you feel any better, girls do the same things....I'm always having to referee between my two....

on May 27, 2004
Hey, werewolf, thanks for the laugh.....pretty funny...
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