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I was talking to my mum in the UK earlier this afternoon.  She told me some things that literally boggled my mind and left me gobsmacked (that's 'speechless' for those not familiar with Brit-speak).

For instance, she said that you'd be hard pressed to find a Christmas card that had a religious scene on the front of it. No Nativity scenes, no three wise men, no shepherds watching their flocks, no angels.  Nothing that mentions the reason for the season.

When the Round Table (a charitable organization) drove their motorized sleigh around my hometown (they've done it every Christmas for as long as I can recall) there weren't Christmas carols blaring out of the speakers.  Instead people were treated to (don't laugh at this) The Monkees 'I'm a believer'.  Yeah.  Very festive, that.  Ho freakin' ho.

There has been talk among the various members of district council that people should be discouraged from using the term 'Christmas' and should instead use 'The Winter Holiday'.  Perhaps it's just me, but somehow "Merry Winter Holiday!" doesn't quite sound right.  Doesn't put me in a Christmass-y mood at all.

The children who go door-to-door singing carols for money aren't actually singing carols anymore - and havent been for quite a few years now.  They sing 'Jingle Bells' and 'Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer', mum said, and she had to tell them that she wasn't going to give them any money unless they sang a Christmas carol or two.  The ones who came around over the weekend couldn't come up with anything other than 'Away In A Manger' and even then they only knew half the words (here's a little trivia for you: did you know that the British version of that carol is sung to a completely different tune?). 

She and I had quite a lengthy discussion about what the hell is going on in the UK.  Apparently, people are SOOOOO afraid of offending the country's sizeable Muslim population that they're doing away with any and everything that mentions religion - more specifically, Christianity.  It's okay to talk about Ramadan and to hear the Muezzin's call to prayer six times a day, but they can't say 'Christmas' or have cards with the baby Jesus on the front of them. 

It's ridiculous.  Britain has been a Christian country for hundreds of years; the monarch is the head of the Church of England, for crying out loud.  The Muslims that are living in the UK now stem from the flood of immigrants who were given free entry by way of an apology for the raping and pillaging that was done to their homelands during the expansion of the glorious British Empire.  Tolerance and respect of each other's faiths is a 2-way street - and right now, it seems that British Christians are being asked to kowtow to Islam and give up any and all references to their faith so as not to offend those poor wee Muslims - who are, as we all know, very touchy and easily upset.  The banners saying things like 'Europe is the cancer, Islam is the answer' at the demonstrations in London this past spring are a good indication of how easily offended British Muslims are.  Nobody seems to give a rat's behind about how offended British Christians are - and I never, ever thought that I'd be advocating for Christianity.  That should give some of my regular readers an idea of how irritated all of this is making me.

 Stupidity like this isn't doing anything to promote tolerance between the faiths, all it's doing is shoving an even bigger wedge between them and straining even further an already tense relationship.  If some of these suggestions are actually adopted and written into law, it wouldn't surprise me to see more bombings in London - but this time, it'll be the British Christian extremists that will be doing the bombing.


Comments
on Dec 14, 2006
well said.
on Dec 15, 2006
Same for Sweden...I couldn't find hardly any relgious Christmas cards at all. Most had hearts and apples on them! Never heard Merry Applemas before. I ended up making my own.
on Dec 15, 2006

So PC is not solely an American affliction.

But I got a suggestion.  Start a blog of Brit-speak!  Gobsmacked is hilarious!

on Dec 15, 2006
Actually there have been several recent article that suggest Britain and many parts of Europe are so far gone that their only options for the future are either abandonment of the sub-continent for the US or a return to brutal nationalism. Steyn article on the demographics of it all can be found here.
on Dec 15, 2006
It is very sad over here, The Brits have lost most of their Idendity, their heritage and now their christmas too. However when you consider it is a "mad" englishman putting the suggestions forward in the first place - small wonder!

The irony of it is the Muslim community do not agree with it at all, they believe the christians should be allowed to display christmas etc.

It really is pathetic.

on Dec 15, 2006
Interesting, but I'm afraid that this article is a good example of what happens when you've been away form your native country for a long time (as have I).
she said that you'd be hard pressed to find a Christmas card that had a religious scene on the front of it.

I'm flying back to the UK for a holiday tomorrow, so I'll check this out, but I'll be honest and say right now I suspect that this is an exaggeration. Anyway, as I remember when I lived there, there were always more 'holly and ivy' and 'santa in his sleigh' cards on sale than 'baby in the manger' cards. For most people in Britain the 'reason for the season' has always been to spend lots, eat lots and drink lots - so no change there.

There has been talk among the various members of district council that people should be discouraged from using the term 'Christmas' and should instead use 'The Winter Holiday'.

Actually I'm glad to hear this. Although the idea is quite daft, I'm reassured to hear that the UK is still a country where there can still be 'talk' of doing things - even daft things.

The children who go door-to-door singing carols for money aren't actually singing carols anymore... They sing 'Jingle Bells' and 'Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer' .

The irony is delicious, bearing in mind where you now live. This suggests to me, not the evil machinations of Islamic extremists but a creeping Americanisation of British culture! ::

I think a lot of your anxiety could be cured by a quick trip home sometime. However, I like to think that I am an honest person, so if when I am back in the UK I do find a land where the good, honest christian folk are quaking in fear of offending their ferocious jihadic neighbours, I will tell it as it is and report back accordingly.
on Dec 16, 2006

well said.

Thanks!

Same for Sweden...I couldn't find hardly any relgious Christmas cards at all

I find that very sad. 

So PC is not solely an American affliction

Nope.  The Brits are even more PC than Americans are!

Start a blog of Brit-speak! Gobsmacked is hilarious!

I'll see what I can do later today.  I'll probably write the original article and then keep adding to it via comments as more words come to me....!

Actually there have been several recent article that suggest Britain and many parts of Europe are so far gone that their only options for the future are either abandonment of the sub-continent for the US or a return to brutal nationalism.

I had heard the same thing.  They've got themselves into such a mess with all this PC-ness and ASBO's(that's Anti-Social Behavious Order for those not familiar with the term) that they're almost unable to function.


Reply By: jennifer1Posted: Friday, December 15, 2006
It is very sad over here, The Brits have lost most of their Idendity, their heritage and now their christmas too.

Thank you for coming here and giving your perspective - it's nice to hear from someone who actually lives there!

I'll be honest and say right now I suspect that this is an exaggeration.

So, you're calling my mother, my brother, my sister-in-law, my niece and nephew, my uncle and my aunt and Jennifer1 liars, are you?  They all live in the UK; I think that they are more qualified than any of us here to say what is an exaggeration and what isn't.

I think a lot of your anxiety could be cured by a quick trip home sometime

I'm not anxious; I'm not at all worried about what's going on in the UK.  The political correctness was getting crazy when I left in '95 and I imagine that it didn't get any better in the past decade.  I'd love to go home, but it's not as simple as taking 'a quick trip'.  I don't have $5000 to spend on tickets for everyone, and it's not practical for me to go alone (my husband's job is such that I can't rely on him to be home to watch the kids after school and on the weekends).  If it WERE as simple as 'a quick trip' I'd have gone home years ago.

I fully believe that things in my hometown ARE as bad as my mother said.  Neither she or my brother are prone to exaggeration; it's not in their nature...they're both pretty low-key and tend to minimize things - they're definitely not 'mountains out of molehills' kind of folks.

on Dec 19, 2006
There is a lot in the press every year about how this or that local council have banned christmas parties, cards or even the whole word christmas. The trouble is that most of the storys are just not correct and those that are are usually out dated or missinformed. Eg there was a suitation where a man was told to take down outside lights, not because of any fear of offending muslims but because it blinded car drivers who turned a corner in the road. In another case a woman was told she couldn't have lights in her car. It was reported that the reason was again so not to offend. The reason the police actually gave was that they were blue lights and that colour is solely reserved for the emergency services.

A friend of mind took part is a rotary club christmas drives around two local villages and they played carols. As they also did when another group drove around my village.

For examples where this has been dicussed in the written press,

http://www.guardian.co.uk/christmas2006/story/0,,1967367,00.html.

It was also featured on Radio 4 (the largest BBC spoken word radio station in the UK).
on Dec 20, 2006

A friend of mind took part is a rotary club christmas drives around two local villages and they played carols.

So?  They didn't do it in my hometown, and according to both the local and national press (NOT The Sun, I might add) there have been numerous towns that followed suit.

Just because they didn't do it where you live does NOT mean that nobody did it. 

on Dec 20, 2006
But one place not using carols makes a it a nationwide anti-christan movement?