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Published on April 23, 2004 By dharmagrl In Misc
I had the most unexpected surprise today. I got a message from Family Advocacy this morning, regarding the allegation of neglect that was made the other day. They had more questions for me, they said, and would I please call them. My heart about dropped into my shoes. "Here we go again", I thought. I tried to return the call all morning, then gave up - I was going to go over to that office later for an Overseas Clearance appointment anyway, so I'd catch up with them then.

So, I go over there with the kids and we get the clearance stuff taken care of, after close to 40 mins of sitting around and talking. "Now, Dharma" said the Capt. in charge of the meeting "I have another question for you regarding the allegation that was made recently. I hope you're not going to be too upset by this, but...the person also said that your son was running around outside with a knife at the end of January, threatening to kill himself and hurt anyone else who tried to stop him. I'd have to say I now think that there's a lot of meaness and vindictivness behind this report, and I'm inclined to not believe a word of it. Would you agree?"

Well, I about fell off my chair laughing. You see, Dave was home in January, so it wouldn't just be my word against theirs on this; I'd have someone to back me up.

"Well, Sir....I think that you're right about the reasons behind the allegations. If my son was in fact behaving that way, why didn't anyone call Security Forces at the time? Why wait until now, 3 months later, to bring it all to light? Oh, and my husband was home most of January and part of February too; I'm sure he'll be happy to verify that he never saw Davey acting that way if you need him too" I said, trying to contain my laughter.

It was too good to be true, it really was. I was witnessing karma in action. B had succeeded in making a total fool out of herself, and I hadn't had to do anything to help her! I hadn't needed to be vindictive, I hadn't needed to be underhanded, I hadn't had to force anything to happen....it all came to pass without any intervention from me. This was literally an ephiphany for me. It all became clear; everything I had learned and had been trying to put into practice...it was all right and true.

Long live karma!!!!!

Comments
on Apr 23, 2004
"It was too good to be true, it really was. I was witnessing karma in action. B had succeeded in making a total fool out of herself, and I hadn't had to do anything to help her! I hadn't needed to be vindictive, I hadn't needed to be underhanded, I hadn't had to force anything to happen....it all came to pass without any intervention from me. This was literally an ephiphany for me. It all became clear; everything I had learned and had been trying to put into practice...it was all right and true. "

That is GREAT news, Dharma!! I wish you could see the huge smile on my face....see, I told you that having the truth on your side would pay off!! I am so happy for you and the kids....now maybe you can relax a little, huh? Congratulations!!!
on Apr 23, 2004
Yes, Poetmom, I can. I'm not nearly as uptight now as I was earlier this week.

I have a big grin on my face too.....
on Apr 23, 2004
Glad to hear it's turned in your favor--I love when people are stupid enough to hang themselves! She's got quite the imagination, eh?
on Apr 23, 2004
She's got quite the imagination, eh?

Luckily for me, yeah. I can't think of a more absurd thing she could have come up with...except maybe my kids were playing naked in the rain or snow, that would be slightly more outrageous.

on Apr 23, 2004
....it all came to pass without any intervention from me. This was literally an ephiphany for me. It all became clear; everything I had learned and had been trying to put into practice...it was all right and true.


Dharma~that's VERY good news! Congrats big time! I just knew you would come through this better than ever. And now that silly little fool that has been acting out like this will more than likely STOP IT in a hurry, huh? I mean, just like you said: There are other people now to back up what you have been saying all along. This is so cool! I am smiling for you right now. And all these recent good things could not have happened to a finer person. Now I bet even MORE good things will be coming your way in a hurry? I can't wait to hear about those too! CONGRATS AGAIN!

~MadPoet
on Apr 23, 2004
I understand how uptight you would be last week. No matter how wrong an allegation of child abuse may be, it is a serious matter and sometimes liars are believed. Fortunately the liar in this case was not credible and things turned out better than you expected. No matter what the situation, having feelings is normal. I'm glad you passed both tests with flying colors. Test one: Did you abuse your children? Test two: Will a calm reaction clear up the matter?
on Apr 23, 2004
I STILL think you should go poop in her lawn
on Apr 23, 2004
I STILL think you should go poop in her lawn


Dharma~I'm with Imajinit on this one big time! . (Just thinking of what that petty little neighbor TRIED to do to you still kinda pisses me off~no pun intended for sure! . ) CONGRATS AGAIN! I have been keeping you in my thoughts and prayers most every night....

~MadPoet

P.S. Please forgive the kinda scatological humor~I am extremely young at heart sometimes~best way for an old timer to be.....but I mean well....
on Apr 24, 2004
I am extremely young at heart sometimes~best way for an old timer to be

Oh puleeezeee! You're not an 'old timer'!! If you're old, then so am I. I know you mean well, and poo, in the immortal words of Larry The Cable Guy : "I don't care who y'are, that's funny".

If I thought that it wouldn't come back on me, I'd do it. I'd like to give her a Flaming Bag O'Doo-Doo, right on her porch at 3 am. But, after this weeks incidents and the resolution of such I'm not prepared to do anything to screw up my karma, and I'm thinking that pooping in her yard might do just that.
on Apr 24, 2004
hehe... and her credibility is now completely and utterly blown!

Way to go dharma. I'm pleased as punch for you. And you're right about the no-retaliation... all thats gonna do is begin the cycle all over again.

Silly little cow just aint worth it!

Wreckless.
on Apr 24, 2004
Hey, Wreckless...are you in Enlgand? If so, where?
on Apr 24, 2004
Congrats dharma! It is always heartwarming to see stupid and petty behavior self-destruct.
on Apr 24, 2004
Thanks Dev....it made me pretty ...ummm....satisfied, I guess.