I love you.

Published on March 22, 2006 By dharmagrl In Personal Relationships

I just told a man who isn't my husband that I love him.

And I do. I DO love him. It's not in the same way as I love my husband, but it's love nonetheless.

I love a lot of people, some of whom I've never met. It sounds incredible, doesn't it? Loving people that you've never met. But it's possible, and it's real.

For instance, I love more than few JoeUsers, and I've never met them.

I love Texas Wahine. She's a wondeful person who, after a year or so of some pretty crappy happenings, is finally getting the happiness she deserves. She's awesome, and I love her.

I love JillUser. She too is having a wonderful year - her family is growing, her husband's business is growing, life is good for her and her family right now and I'm incredibly happy and proud to call her my friend and tell her that I love her.

I love Karma. She doesn't just talk the talk, she walks the walk too. She's compassionate and giving and she bears more pain on a daily basis than some people have in a lifetime. She's a truly incredible person, and I love her.

I love ModerateMan. He's lived a hell of a life, and is now handling himself and his illness with dignity and strength. He's just devoted to his Colleen, and that makes me love him even more.

I love DrGuy too. He's quietly generous - he's done things for other JoeUsers behind the scenes and hasn't made any big fanfare about it, which I think is just fabulous. He's a truly good man, and I love him.

I love Trudygolightly. She has lived a hell of a life, she's done some wonderful things, and it breaks my heart to see and hear about her struggles sometimes. I love her, and I wish that I could do more for her.

I love NickyG. She's a single parent who is raising her child to not only respect but also to celebrate other cultures, and she's doing a hell of a job with it. I have a lot of time, respect and love for her.

I love BlueDev. That man is such a shining example of Christianity; his faith just blows me away. He's a wonderful husband and father and physician - and I love him and his family dearly.

I love ParaTed. He's been there for me during some pretty difficult times in my life, and he's always, always be respectful of my personal beliefs. He's shown me some things that have made me think twice about faith and religion - and I love him.

I love other people here too...Bakerstreet, Gideon, Greywar, Mr Frog, SPC NBS, Janders, Trina P, Alison, Megan, Geezer, Pseudo, Brad, HC, Tova and many more (if I left you out, I'm sorry - just know that even though I didn't mention you, I do love you all the same).

Love isn't meant to be hoarded and kept to yourself. It's meant to be given away freely and without conditions or reservations. If I die having accomplished nothing, if I depart this world with nothing else to show for my time here other than love - then I will be happy.

As John, Paul, Ringo and George said, sometimes 'all you need is love'.

Comments (Page 1)

shadesofgrey

on Mar 22, 2006

Nice post, D.

terpfan1980

on Mar 22, 2006

She loves us, she really, really loves us! Yes!

(Thanks for putting a smile on more than a few faces Dharma, and hope you have been getting over the latest battles with flu/virus/germs that kept you from getting to see the Veep

)

Dr Guy

on Mar 22, 2006

Thank you Dharma. Men are very averse to using the "L word" freely, but I understand exactly what you mean. None of us will ever be Dave or share a love like the 2 of you have with you, but we touch lives and make impacts that endear us to others as well. There are many here that I feel close to, because they have shared and we have tried to help. And our hands were not bitten, but kissed or shaken.

You are wise beyond your years. And you continually impress me with your wisdom.

Trudygolightly

on Mar 22, 2006

On today of all days, when I've been down, guess who shows up and lets me know I'm loved?

Dharma did thank you Dhama for the love, and your understanding of a life lived hard, and the acceptance of me anyway!

I love you too young lady ((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

Dan Kaschel

on Mar 22, 2006

I just told a man who isn't my husband that I love him.

And I do. I DO love him. It's not in the same way as I love my husband, but it's love nonetheless.

Hmm,methinks she doth protest too much!

Just kidding. Good article.

Dan

ParaTed2k

on Mar 22, 2006

yeah, Karen I do understand completely. I love you too, and have no problem letting the world know. To tell you the truth, I've missed our conversations, but I'm also thrilled that neither of us seem to need them anymore. I'm also glad to know that, even without them, we still carry that love.

I can think of a few dozen people I've said "Those three little words" too (that weren't family). I can't imagine living a whole life without telling those we love that we do.

again. I love you too.

{{{{Dr. Guy... I guess that's another blackball for me and the "guy club" right? :~D }}}}}}

JillUser

on Mar 22, 2006

I've said it before and I'll say it again, you are soooo sweet! Well right back at ya Karen. Just this morning Alex told me that you are a nice person because you leave nice comments on his articles on Wincustomize.com. He's always been a good judge of character.

Your generousity of heart is apparent in the fact that you want to help at hospice care. Your ability to reach out and touch people amazes me. I feel very fortunate to be able to call you friend.

Dr Guy

on Mar 22, 2006

{{{{Dr. Guy... I guess that's another blackball for me and the "guy club" right? :~D }}}}}}

No Ted. That gets you back in, and the rest of us still trying to get there.

BlueDev

on Mar 22, 2006

Dharma: Wow. Just wow. I was really moved by this. It means a lot to me. You are an amazing person. You were one of my first friends here and I appreciate that so much.

SSG Geezer

on Mar 22, 2006

dharmagrl

on Mar 22, 2006

Nice post, D

Thanks, M.

Thanks for putting a smile on more than a few faces Dharma, and hope you have been getting over the latest battles with flu/virus/germs that kept you from getting to see the Veep

Yeah, I'm feeling better, but now my kid is sick! Typical, huh?!

None of us will ever be Dave or share a love like the 2 of you have with you, but we touch lives and make impacts that endear us to others as well. There are many here that I feel close to, because they have shared and we have tried to help. And our hands were not bitten, but kissed or shaken.

Bingo! That's EXACTLY it. I'm so glad that you get it....and yes, the reason this community works is because we don't bite each other!

On today of all days, when I've been down, guess who shows up and lets me know I'm loved?
Dharma did

Oh Trudy, I'm so glad that this helped you! Isn't it funny how sometimes you get exactly what you need from the strangest of places?!

Hmm,methinks she doth protest too much!

Just kidding. Good article.

Har har...and thanks, Dan.

We'll talk again, I'm sure. Your friendship means a lot to me, and I consider myself very fortunate to be your friend and have your love.

Just this morning Alex told me that you are a nice person because you leave nice comments on his articles on Wincustomize.com.

Aww, bless his little heart! I was worried that I was intruding because he doesn't respond much, so I'm glad to know that he's ok with it!

Your ability to reach out and touch people amazes me. I feel very fortunate to be able to call you friend.

Thank you. I don't know where this ability comes from, it just sort of made itself known a few years ago. At first I was worried that I was sticking my nose in where it wasn't wanted, but I've learned when to back off and let people do their own thing. I know a few people who could really use some help (not just from me) but they're not open to accepting assistance - so I just have to watch from afar and simply be ready and there for them when they eventually do need help - and they will.

I too am honored to know you and consider myself blessed to have your love and friendship.

You were one of my first friends here and I appreciate that so much

Thank you, Dev....I remember those days very well. We talked about things that simply amazed me - your missionary work, your exotic illnesses, and your love of Rush and their tunes. We've come a long way since then - you've expanded your family and have made your way through who knows how many speciality rotations, and I've moved house, dealt with deployments and surgeries and all kinds of stuff - and yet here we are, 2 years later, still blogging and growing and learning together. That's so precious to me.

Huh? I don't get it. Sorry!

BlueDev

on Mar 22, 2006

Huh? I don't get it. Sorry!

The

is emoticon for a heart. Followed by your initial K.

I'm guessing he's another member of the K fan club!

SSG Geezer

on Mar 22, 2006

Thanks BD!
12 Months 8 days!

crimson

on Mar 23, 2006

Sweet article. I'm grateful to have had the opportunity to establish relationships with others here at Joeuser, and am pleased (for the most part) about how we are able to come together and offer support, understanding and friendship towards one another.

This is an excellent community to be a part of, and I tip my hat to you, a person who tries to be something to everyone.

My respect goes to you, Karen.
Nic.

Dynosoar

on Mar 23, 2006

**sniff**

Go off for a while and get fergottin'..............

I'll massage me poor wounded ego by rationalizing I'm one of those "others", unmentioned, yet not forgotten..

***sulks off to corner, glancing to see if anyone takes notice***

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