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Published on September 14, 2005 By dharmagrl In Misc

I was shopping for clothes for my daughter last week, and I was flabbergasted at some of the fashions aimed at little girls - and by that I mean 6 - 12 year olds.

One of the mannaquins was wearing a skirt so short it barely covered it's butt and a T-shirt that 'tease' on the front of it. In the shoe department there were 3 different styles of knee high boots for little girls, two of which had heels on them. 

That wasn't the worst of it though. I saw something else that I thought was totally inappropriate.

Lingerie.  Yes, lingerie. Lace and satin spaghetti strapped baby-doll nighties with miniscule bikini panties to match.  For the older girls there were demi-cut padded bras with matching thongs.

Why are we sexualizing our children at such an early age?  We complain that we have rampant pedophilia, that there are sex offenders everywhere and that our kids aren't safe, then we turn around and send them out dressed like little hoochie mommas fresh off the street corner.  I hear women talking to their daughters about how 'hot' they are in whatever outfit it is that they're wearing, and I'm just flabbergasted, #1 that ANY mother would tell their pre-pubescent child that they're 'hot', and #2 that they're actually encouraging their children to wear clothes like this!

I know that we can't blame the way children dress for the pedophilia epedemic that this country is experiencing.  That would be like saying that a woman who wore a mini skirt was 'asking' to be raped.  But don't we have an obligation to protect our children from things that aren't age appropriate?  Don't we have an obligation to let them be kids, to be little girls?  To play dress up their Barbies and ride bikes, to have tea parties and play hide and go seek instead of seeing who can wear the shortest skirt, the highest boots and the most make-up at the earliest age?

We need to stop leading our kids down the sexualization path, America.  We need to let them be kids, not encourage them to lose their innocence at even earlier ages.


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on Sep 15, 2005
That's a little young for it, dontcha think?

I'm still seriously thinking of installing bars on the outside of her windows and and a padlock on her door ...

Oh, yeah, and the TSA style full bag search on the way out the door.

J/k (I think). Though, the more I think about it, the more serious about it I am. Grrrr.


Might be time to stock up on the "rock salt" ammo for the shotgun, eh?
on Sep 15, 2005
How can some parents let this go on? Sure, I believe that it's important to instill the women of the future with ideas of equality and independence, but there's a difference between being smart and thinking about your sexuality, and just being plain skanky.


I think that a lot of it happens because parents feel guilty. It see it all the time - parents work full-time and feel bad about their kids being in daycare, so they buy them stuff. Video games, clothes, toys....I think that either parents feel bad so they don't say anything about their kids going out dressed like that, or they just don't see it because they're at work.

Then again, you have the parents who just don't care.....and yet again, the ones who encourage it. I think your friend taught piano to a girl who's mother encouraged her to wear mini skirts and halter tops.
on Sep 15, 2005
I can't believe that they make halter tops in ALL sizes, and I mean ALL. (They have belly shirts in sizes to fit my 2 month old daughter. )


I know! When I was looking at baby clothes for Jayna (before she was born) I saw all these tiny mini skirts and halter tops...for infants, for crying out loud!!
on Sep 15, 2005
I'm still seriously thinking of installing bars on the outside of her windows and and a padlock on her door ...

Oh, yeah, and the TSA style full bag search on the way out the door


We had thought that we'd need to do the same thing for Shea. luckily, she's not like that, and I can't help but think that the atmosphere she was raised in has something to do with it (Im not trying to toot my own horn here, I'm just saying that we've tried to guide her morally bt have also let her make her own decisions too...)
I think that your girl is going to be the same way, CM. I mean, she's got your for a dad.....
on Sep 15, 2005
Might be time to stock up on the "rock salt" ammo for the shotgun, eh?


Hehehehe.....Dave thought so too, but it hasn't been necessary.
on Sep 15, 2005
Hehehehe.....Dave thought so too, but it hasn't been necessary


Not as of yet, anyway.
He might sing a different tune later. I'm just VERY glad that I had 2 boys and no girls. Because otherwise, "someone" would have been "seriously" hurt!
on Sep 15, 2005
I sooo agree dharma! Another fashion trend I think is awful but passed off as cute is the short shorts, skirts, etc with a word or saying written on the ass. Even stuff like "Cutie Pie" or whatever. The comedian Carlos Mancia had it right when he said "why don't they say what they mean, "Look at my ass!". Do these parents really want everyone taking notice of their 7yr old daughter's ass?

This stuff is acceptable but breastfeeding is offensive, What the hell?!! Our society is so screwed up!!!!
on Sep 15, 2005

Another fashion trend I think is awful but passed off as cute is the short shorts, skirts, etc with a word or saying written on the ass. Even stuff like "Cutie Pie" or whatever. The comedian Carlos Mancia had it right when he said "why don't they say what they mean, "Look at my ass!". Do these parents really want everyone taking notice of their 7yr old daughter's ass?

I agree totally.  it's not appropriate, period.  I have 2 pairs of pants with things written on the ass of them, and they're both pajamas  (actually, I'm wearing a pair right now.  They say 'blame the dog' on the rear end of them.). 

I simply don't get it.  people bitch about pedophilia, yet they let their 7 year olds wear clothing that draws attention to their little bodies.

on Sep 15, 2005
By "everywhere" don't you think a few of those pedophiles and sex offenders just might have found there way into the fashion, advertizing, entertainment and other areas that run our pop culture? What better way to "normalize" pedophilia than make it part of the "fun" of fashion.


This is a good point and I've never thought about that!


I'm amazed at the way some parents let their children go outside their homes wearing almost nothing sometimes! Another place where inappropriate style of clothing is at the pool side. Have you seen some of those bathing suits for kids? The teenagers are the same way too.
on Sep 15, 2005
I have 2 pairs of pants with things written on the ass of them, and they're both pajamas (actually, I'm wearing a pair right now. They say 'blame the dog' on the rear end of them.).


What did the dog do at your rear?

Another example of conflicting messages: Child beauty pageants.
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